how would you know if your husband has lost interest in you?

Question

i've been pregnent and i dont want to do a lot of things. and he does all the lovey dovey things but when i look into his eyes i dont see anything. maybe i made the wrong decision.

Answer 1

he would treat you differently than he did before he lost interest in you . especially in the bed room . not caring about having sex with you . not telling you that you look pretty for no reason at all , or not giving you little kisses when you least expect him to . if you feel he has no interest in you . sit down and have a talk with him . tell him it bothers you and you want to be closer with him , good luck.

Answer 2

Let's see, I'm married but I'd rather ask complete strangers about my husband, that no one knows.....instead of having a come to Jesus meeting with my husband. If you love your husband then sit down with him and ask him what's wrong. Ask him if he has lost interest. Tell him how much you love him and how you are willing to do whatever it takes to lite the fire again. Have some courage and do what it takes. Take the first step. He's probably wondering some of the same things you are.

Answer 3

If you have to ask this question, it seems to me, that its already happened.
If you feel that way, then he has lost interest in you. If he isn't hugging you, kissing you, making love to you as often as you wish. If he doesn't but you gifts or flowers, on occasions, then you have your answer.
Next thing to ask yourself, is have you let yourself go, have you gotten out of shape etc. You know the answer to that, so be honest with yourself. If thats the case, do something about it.
If he can't get want he wants or desires, at home, he will look elsewhere.

Answer 4

Sweetie,
I just think you are worried too much that being pregnant has put a damper in your mood and you are worried he doesn't love you since you don't want to have sex as much. I doubt you have anyting to worry about. Maybe he also knows that being pregnant affects your hormones and maybe you are not in the mood and is just trying to respect you while you are going through pregnancy.
Also, there are a lot of men who no matter how often you tell them that sex is ok for the baby, wont believe you. You could have a team of 12 doctors tell them, and they still wouldn't believe it. Maybe he is just worried about hurting the baby.

Answer 5

he suddenly has to work odd hours, and maybe out of town. he no longer makes u a priority and is no longer interested in the house, in things u use to do together. maybe he just suddenly got a cell phone, and when it rings he goes into a different room to talk. he picks fights for no reason, finds falts, is critiical of everything u do. maybe he comments on your weight or name calls, not in a joking way but serious. u no longer feel special around him, and theres this feeling deep inside that one just can't put their finger on. is he unusually quiet, and u don't have those close conversations u use to have. does he forget to do the little things for u he use to do. has his sexual habits changed, either he avoids sex, or does it feel as if u are having sex with someone else. does he do things deliberetly to upset you, than act as if he didn't. are u catching him in lies. do u pass each other in your vehicles on the street and he looks straight ahead, as if he either doesn't see u, or he is deliberetly turning his head away from u. does he seem to be deep in thought at times as if he is far far away. does he complain about his job, or his life not being what he wants. does he leave u at home when he goes places he use to take u? does he go out a little bit more than he ever did, and stay gone for hours, not telling u where he is, when he always use to tell u where he was going. does he bathe a little more than he use to, or has he suddenly started buying more clothing. is he suddenly more into himself more than he ever was, more concerned with his needs and wants. does he suddenly resent doing anything around the home for u. is he sleeping more than usual?he just isn't the man u fell in love with, and he has changed alot. u know something is wrong, u know u feel out of touch but just don't know what to do about it, since he isn't communicating with u much.

Answer 6

He'll work late or have plans with his buddies on the weekend. Maybe he'll get home and not talk much to you. A decrease in sex drive is a sure sign of lost interest.

Answer 7

well for starters your married its already over!!!

Answer 8

yeah...what she said...