say your boyfriend of a year who you were about to move in with etc, called you "stupid" while you were cuddling on the couch with him...and he did it bc you did something silly or "blonde" so he says "stupid..." jokingly while laughing. and you giggled back and playfully hit him. and then when he went back home (long dist relationship) on the phone he was doing the same thing when you did/said something wierd. would you be offended? take a break from him? if you knew he was kidding around. would it be a big deal?
Lately I've been saying to him things like "don't be dumb," "don't be stupid" and he doesnt blink twice or react in anyway to it. it doesnt bother him in the least.
2006-11-09 11:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Chances are that he is just joking with you. Because you never said that him saying that you were stupid offended you, he thinks it is okay to say it. If in fact you do get offended by him saying this then you need to tell him or in the long run you will feel animosity for him repeatably saying it. Just be up front but not overly dramatic about it. The next time he says it just be like,''Hey, stop saying that it hurts my feelings, babe.'' If you say it in a cute way it will make him melt. On the other hand, when you say these things to him maybe he doesn't want you to tell you that it really hurts his feelings because he doesn't know how you will react. All together I would just stop saying those things to him. If it doesn't bother either of you then that's fine too. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-11-09 11:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
before everything she become maximum liely getting aggravated with the help of the reality that folk have been continuously bugging her, and then, you wouldnt make any strikes so as that set her off a sprint, and now she finally have been given the image and is at a loss for words, merely take a super gamble and ask her out, the worst factor that could happenis that she will have the potential to decline, and you're able to circulate directly to somebody else
2016-11-23 13:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him if he thinks your stupid? Maybe he thinks it's a term of endearment or he' thinks it's just teasing. I would only get mad if he really thinks you're dumb, not just because he used a "slang" word. Before you move in you need to communicate better.
2006-11-09 11:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By saying those things to him you are letting him know that it is ok to say those things to you. If it isn't, that's fine, but you have to let him know. Also, you will have to stop saying those things to him.
You really can't get mad at him for saying it because it seems like you started it.
2006-11-09 12:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your really sensitive it would bother that person. talk to him/her and find out what each of you is feeling. Communication is the key to a good realionship.
2006-11-09 11:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by michele linette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thatd really depend on how well u knew each other and the tone in his voice.
2006-11-09 11:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by *lil miss* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!
2006-11-09 11:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Weird grils love bad boys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋