She has already made up her mind to get an abortion. Would you: A.) want to know. B.) Not want to know or C.) what to know and would like a say in the matter at hand.
I want to know your opinion??????
2006-11-09 10:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Abort it, the sooner the better.
2006-11-09 11:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you're the wonam in the situation, select B - dont make a difficult time any more difficult than it has to be.
From the guy's perspective, since she is already getting an abortion, I would be better off never knowing than thinking of all of the what ifs and what could have beens.
I would want to know if she decided to have the child.
2006-11-09 10:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by schester3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I have to say, CJ has the best answer.
That said, option C is the way I'd go if I were a bloke and found myself in such a ****** up situation. It's not fair that just because the baby dwells inside of a woman's body, she has complete control over its fate. The baby is the responsibility of both of its parents after it's born, and should have the same privledge in utero, too, don't you think?
At any rate, I really hope this is only a hypothetical question.
2006-11-09 11:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jade 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is the onus on the woman all the time to take the precautions? If the man doesn't want to be a father, he'd better be using a condom. In all the history, men just seem able to walk away not caring, leaving the woman behind. Its time for men to step up and take some bloody responsibility for the precautions as well.
2006-11-09 14:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by geminiidream63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing the bump and grind is a little more than casual. I'd want to know and I would take responsability for my baby. Babies are not mistakes. People have sex on purpose.
2006-11-09 10:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by dww32720 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a would like 2 know and have a say in the matter because its not just her kid
at the end of the day its urs also
2006-11-09 10:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would never date her. I don't want someone that so easily can get an abortion. If they had one in the past, and decided it was a bad decision and wrong choice, then I'd date them.
2006-11-09 10:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by CJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never date some bimbo stupid enough to get accidently pregnant. In this day and age there is no excuse, in view of all the contraceptive choices. My Lord, how hard is it for a woman to take responsibility for her own body?
2006-11-09 12:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him.
It may be your decision, but I think he should know.
Perhaps in the future, he will take better caution. Safe sex, people!
2006-11-09 10:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by mr_mumbles_nyc 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The father has the right know as it is his child too.
2006-11-09 11:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by margarita 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋