Who is the father of my unborn child?

Question

I was with one man pretty much every day in April and another man on April 21st. My due date is January 7th, 2007. Who is the father?

Answer 1

Hiya. Oops you, not knowing who the father is and not wearing protection. But i am sure you are getting loads of slap hands for this. At least you aren't aborting the baby and are doing the right thing looking after it.

Unfortunately it is impossible to tell for sure until your baby is born. If you knew the first day of your period before you got pregnant and then your average cycle time then you could tell when you were ovulating. This aint for sure that this was the time you got pregnant but is the higher chance.

For your sake and your baby's make sure a DNA test is done as soon as baby is born and then you can fairly claim child support off the father. It will help you.

I am sure you have enough worries on your mind who the father is and so i will just say dont forget to wear protection next time and choose carefully.

Best of luck to you x

Answer 2

You are going to have to tell both of the guys because for 1 its not the childs fault that you are in this situation the child has the right to know who its father is and by doing what you did you will be lucky if either of the guys talk to you and it doesn't help to tell one he is the father because years down the road someone might say something and that will hurt him and the child because of your mistake and 2 if that guy feels that someone else could be the father and you lie about it you might not see your child again because I know parents that have put up top dollar to see that the child is taken away from the mother and placed with the father. And 3 if you don't tell neither of the guys you better plan on working to pay for everything that child needs and if you plan on getting welfare they are going to want to know who the father is and unlike on here you have to look someone in the eyes and tell them that you don't know who the father is. Bottom line is you really didn't need to ask this question because you already know what you need to do to make this right because you wont be able to save yourself from embarassment but also this happens to alot of people the important thing is you learn from your mistakes.

Answer 3

The same thing happened to a friend of mine. She told everyone that the father was the one who she'd been seeing steadily and not the 1 night stand. Finally, she had a paternity test and discovered that the child was the other man's. For her, it DID work out albeit she had years of not really knowing. My advise to you is to have a paternity test right after the baby is born.

Answer 4

According to the pregnancy calculators the conception date is Sunday, April 16, 2006. Hope this helps!!

Answer 5

people are really rude, nobodys perfect, **** happens. anyways on storknet.com it says if your due date is january 7 then you ovulated on april 16. thats pretty close to the 21st. so it could be either one. do you know when your period was and how long your cycles last, because that could help alot to figure out when you ovulated. i would tell both of them theres a possibility and do a dna test when the baby is born. wish you a happy, healthy pregnancy!! there are so many people who wish they could be pregnant so dont worry about it too much, just be happy that are having a baby, and know you will figure out who the father is when she/he is born.

Answer 6

First of all I think you're all being unfair, have every one of you never cheated on a mate, no one night stands, no bad decisions, she said she slept with this man once, yet you all accuse her of sleeping around, are you all saints? Throwing stones is not nice.

My question for you Kathy is, is your due date by ultrasound. because if you catch it by ultra sound then you have a window of +/- 5 days if sonographed in 1st trimester, and 10 days in second. sometimes by last period your due date can be iffy, due to the fact that cycles are not always exactly 28 days which is how the dr.s date.
good luck Mommy
Best wishes to you

Answer 7

my due date is january 3 2007 and start of last period was march 29 06 so its probably #1! cuz its only 4 days after mine.

Answer 8

Well you obvisouly sleep with a lot of guys. Maybe you were drunk and slept with more.

I would guess the one you were daily with but that might not be the case. I really don't think any of us can be psychic and tell you. The doctore will give you a MUCH more accurate answer than any of us.

Answer 9

I'm not a psychic but I'm sure you can get a dna test once that baby is born.

Answer 10

Call Maury