Everyone laughs and says I have no "gaydar". Specially when some celebrity comes out and I'll be all suprised and all my friends are like we knew.
2006-11-09 10:26:21 · 11 answers · asked by pumpmar 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your friends probably aren't that clever either. They just say that because it makes them feel superior.
Only way you can be sure is if they tell you they are gay, otherwise just move on.
2006-11-09 10:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To be honest 'gaydar' is just being tuned into your intuitions! If you're not particularly concerned about other people's sexualities then you won't really be aware of it. I think Gaydar can be very over rated and abused. The point is that sometimes whatever we might 'think' or 'feel' about another person, you can not ignore how that person chooses to deal with their sexuality on their own terms. I'll use one of my best friends as an example. I am close enough to him to know he always has been gay, but he didn't come to terms with his sexuality until quite recently. I never tried to pressurise him into 'outing' himself or made idle gossip about him with my friends, out of respect for him. I believe a person's sexuality is as individual as they and no one has any right to make a judgment on them, gaydar of not!
2006-11-09 10:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its easy to tell if someone is gay especial if your a man I hada friend that I never figured out was gay until the last minute, you can usualy tell when he looks at men instead of women or if he prefers more femine things such as perfume and gossiping,
2006-11-09 10:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by A liquid insect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter if you have "gaydar" or not? People are people. Just because they come out and say that they are gay doesn't change who they are. They are still the same people as they were yesterday.
2006-11-09 10:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by L. S 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well u can tell by there intrests and there actions. If u see a guy saying like oh my gosh then he is like deffinetly gay. And if a girl starts hangin around boys and acts like a boy then she is probbably also gay.
2006-11-09 11:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to apply this test
for men:
1. do they work in the theater, as a hairdresser, or fashion designer?
2. are they always neat and well groomed
3 they have to be thin, or muscular build
for women;
1. do they work as truck drivers, cops, welders, or softball players?
2. do they wear flannel shirts or have a mullet?
3. are they large and more muscular than 80% of men?
if you answer yes to two out of three...probably gay
2006-11-09 10:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If they like having sex with a member of their same sex, they are more than likely gay. That is the easiest way to tell.
2006-11-09 10:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
They have a micro chip implanted in the neck...when you scan it...it reads......GAY!
2006-11-09 10:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as you are, just point blank ask!
2006-11-09 10:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by me_worry? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you are interested in who sleeps with who, but since you are . . . If you're that close to them, ask. If you're not that close, then mind your own business.
2006-11-09 10:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by dt_05851 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋