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I was justs hit on for the first time- not in a 'will you go out with me' way, but actually hit on. I was waiting for my parents, and I guess a public high school was just let out, and then some guy came up to me and asked me for money for his basketball team, and after i was like, "no, i'm sorry, i dont have any money with me"(all i had was a $20 bill), he asked me if I could his 'dick real fast'. i was like, "no I'm sorry, I'm waiting for my parents", but now I just got home and am shaking and feel like I'm going to cry (at the time I just felt really detached). And I don't think I was wearing anything really provocative- just jeans and a long-sleeved tshirt.
When was the first time you were hit on, and how did you feel?

2006-11-09 10:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

I feel like I should clarify some things...
I'd never seen him before in my life, he wasn't with any friends, it was dark out, and it wasn't said jokingly, so I didn't feel like making a comment on it.
plus, usually the only people around there are mothers, so it was a bit out of place.

2006-11-09 10:40:05 · update #1

I do not go to his school- I go to an all girls private school, and am in middle school
the school was several blocks away, and I'd never been into it before

2006-11-09 11:16:18 · update #2

14 answers

Well, you are very polite. When that stupid boy was just being a boy, you said, "no, sorry". Very polite. You seem like a good kid. I think, (from the information given), the guy was just trying to scare you or get money of you. And the part with his dick, that's just a guy being rude to you. You played that situation strong, and by answering you helped him not to touch you or interrogate you further. Don't stress on it. I really don't think you were hit on. He may not have wanted you, he may just have decided to bug you and make you feel a little uncomfortable. If you feel really terrible about this situation, talk to your parents. They are the best help you can have in this kind of situation.

2006-11-09 14:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by otter7 5 · 0 0

He's a jerk. Just ignore boys like that!

If someone ever says something or tries to do something to you that make U feel uncomfortable walk away (or run if appropriate). If you are waiting outside the school when someone makes you feel uncomforable go inside the school. If you need to go inside the main office and ask if U can wait in there because someone out there made U feel uncomfortable. If you want, you can ask to use the phone (if U don't have a cell) to tell who ever is picking you up that you will be waiting for them inside cause [insert situation here].

If you are outside a building that is not the school go in there and wait, if you can. Don't forget to call whoever it is that is picking U up.

But yeah, boys can be immature. One time I got hit on in the middle of the hall way and this guy was like "Hey Brooke" and he did this thing like he wanted to finger me or something. I felt really embarrassed and wanted to just be invisible, especially since it was around other ppl and they were watching. (I'm not sure how that played into the situation, but it did) Usually guys hitting on me isn't a problem but that time was just embarrassing.

2006-11-09 19:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Don't worry. I don't know if he was joking or not, but it doesn't matter. There was no way he could have hurt you in the middle of the day.
Things like that have happened to me and my friends before. My family and I have a boat at our city's marina, and there are lots of parties there. Usualy Canada day is the wildest, and random drunk guys will do things and yell things that can be really scary. It's just important to be careful of who you're with, where you are, and if it's possible for someone to hurt you.
Best of luck.

2006-11-09 20:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa C 2 · 0 0

you are young and there are alot of @ssholes out there-ALOT, there are a few good ones but alot of them just want to get in your pants, and unfortunately you will have to deal with comments like this until you get old and wrinkled. sleazy guys prey on girls that are young and unassuming because its an easy target. the best advice i can give you is when you sense a guy is hitting on you go into BlTCH mode. get an attitude, look at them like they are repulsive scum (which they prob are if they are htting on a young girl), keep your distance but remain confident. and dont take anything from anybody. if guys sense that you are this way then they might back off because they dont want to get shot down. if they get too close get loud, and trust your intuition.

2006-11-09 19:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ugh guys like that suck don't they? And you pretty much have to get used to it, because unless he's stupid enough to sexually harass you in front of a cop, nothing is gonna be done about it. The next time a guy tries that, tell them very firmly to back off and walk away from him. And if that doesn't work and he keeps trying, walk over to a person nearby, (like a man and woman who are standing together) and tell them that the guy is bothering you.

2006-11-09 20:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Darko 3 · 0 0

that wasnt being hit on....that was just a sick teenage boy who thought it would be fun to get back at you by being rude and disgusting.....trust me.....i hang out with guys all of the time.....most of my friends are guys....he probably thought you were cute or something and then when you shot him down he felt endangered and humiliated so he tried to get back at you by embarassing you....i would just suggest avoiding him and try not to think that all guys are like that.......there are some good guys out there.....

2006-11-09 21:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by CrazyCat49 2 · 0 0

Alot of boys from high school act really immature sometimes. Don't worry about it.

2006-11-09 18:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 2 · 2 0

That was a very inappropriate thing for him to say. It's not your fault guys can just be perverted sometimes.

2006-11-10 00:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Alyss K 3 · 0 0

Tell your parents.

And maybe it was a joke. Boys are sometimes (un)funny like that

2006-11-09 18:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by CJ 6 · 1 0

thats what guys do, dont worry. it happends to me a whole lot, once i was 10 and this guy came and slapped me on the butt. i was just as shocked and uncomftable as you where.

2006-11-09 19:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Aneesa S 4 · 0 0

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