2006-11-09 10:08:39 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why did u marry him if u have to ask this question?
2006-11-09 10:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a reason not to then, yes. Are you perhaps guilty, and not trust worthy yourself? Therefore causing you to not trust him. Or do you have a real reason to? Or maybe it is woman's instinct...
If it is anything else, talk to him no matter what! Tell him what is bothering you, and maybe he can settle the dirt a little so you can see clearly. You have been married to him, and know when he is doing something that he is not supposed to be doing. Or when he is being totally honest, and true. If you notice something different about him, call him on it. Be smarter then him.
But don't ruin something that is good over nothing. But then again don't be fooled by your love for him, and the shades he can pull over your eyes. Or even the shades you can pull over your own eyes.
Assist the situation carefully, and cautiously. Only you can make it or break it. Hope all works out for the best.
2006-11-09 10:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Whisper J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he give you a reason for him not to trust him? As a rule you should trust your husband. There are always an exception to the rule. Does he cheat on you? Has he? If yes, then it would be hard to trust. Why else would you not trust him. If he has given you no reason to not trust him then no. You should trust your husband. Marriage is hard if there is no trust in the relationship. There are two sides to the coin.
2006-11-09 11:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is based on ultimate friendship, trust, and companionship.... if you don't or can't trust your husband, then you have a big problem. The question is, "Has he given you any reason to distrust him?", and if not, then the problem is you, and "yes" you should trust him.... that's what the relationship is all about.
2006-11-09 10:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by joe d 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless he gives you reason not to trust him then yes. If you suspect he cannot be trusted then I think it might be best to figure out the reasons why and how he has caused you to not place trust in him.
2006-11-09 10:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Want to share a little more information in order for us to give you an educated guess? Generally speaking though a wife should be able to trust her husband.
2006-11-09 10:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Has he given you a reason not to? The question should be can he trust you?
2006-11-09 10:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by rednose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes Trust him forever-ignore his some outside activities,if you happen to come to know It's normal for average Male.You always just think yourself How much he trust you!Let your inner light guide you.It's foolproof.
2006-11-09 10:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by precede2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So long as your husband has not done anything to lose your trust, yes you must trust him.
A marriage without trust is not a marriage.
2006-11-09 10:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jack C 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Any solid marriage is founded on LOVE and TRUST !
If your marriage is not solid, keep an eye out for obvious signs.
Choking an individuals free time will only tick them off too, tread carefully.
2006-11-09 10:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by farmersb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you married him...I think it's natural to trust him with all your heart. I trust my husband.
2006-11-09 10:11:19 · answer #11 · answered by Este 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋