I find my self with out a girl friend, but i'm moving to a new city over cristmas break. I need some help with how to fit in, and get a girl friend in the new city that i'm moving to. I don't want to be the outcast in highschool.
2006-11-09 10:00:39 · 21 answers · asked by blackluckof13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be your self and if people don't like you still then there notworth your time.
2006-11-09 10:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously speaking, confidence works WONDERS...in all aspects of your life. not just girls, not just friends.. it helps with family, teachers, work, and even strangers! that is why the first step is to work on your SELF first, and the others will soon fall into place. this is my advice to u (and trust me, i went thru this myself, albeit at a much later age, after college!)
Appearance: work out, exercise. take care of ur face and body. try on flattering hair styles and clothes. if u know you Look good, then u can feel good.. and u will not be worrying so much if u look stupid or crappy, u know?
Mind: study. read more, learn more, keep an Open Mind. do well in school. ask questions, don't be afraid to learn new things. join activities and clubs, or hone some interests. u will always have opportunity to meet new friends/people in art class, or sports, and since u like the same things, it's possible u will get along. also, the more you KNOW, the easier it will be for u to converse w/ others.
Finally, work on ur Relationships: first with family.. keep communicaton lines Open. then friends.... always keep in touch w/ old friends, and try to be yourself around New friends. the more comfortable and easy it is to talk to people, the easier it will be for them to see what a great person u are. also, remember, since u Look better, and Know more, u have LESS to be self conscious about!
and the better u feel about urself, the easier all of this stuff will be for you! so start from the beginning, and i think u will have a different outlook on life soon! good luck, and have a great christmas~
2006-11-09 10:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to make new friends, your moving to a new city cool the good thing about moving some where else no one knows you until you make a name for your self, try getting a part time job if your the right age you'll meet a lot of ppl that way. Just don't forget to be your self remember don't be shy keep it real sooner a later you'll get a girl friend. good luck
2006-11-09 10:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by babyvictorialee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait on the bus stand for some one like you comes there,Just say Hi-Hello;tell her that you are waiting since 20 minutes and have some urgent work,ask her which way she is going,tell her you are going to get a Taxi or Car Service and ask her if she need a ride.If she agrees-sit on the back seat - exchange some introduction like and make sure you Willl try to meet her again next day.I am sure she wil definitely give you time at what time she will be near by bus stand.Just keep meeting her several time and try to convert her as a friend,once the friendship is establish- you are on the right track!
2006-11-09 10:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chat to people, in the lunch queue, the library, look for people that are looking alone as well trying to fit in. anywhere. you will meet somone.
think about it this way, the worst thing taht can happen to you is that if you chat to a girl and she dont like you all she can do is pully your trowsers down in the dinner room adn humiliate you, at least you will have tried. also some girl will probbably speak to you after that too, people arear from the most perculia situations.
also watch out for the shadow people, the ones that are shy and quiet, there is probbably someone thinking about you right now, you jsut never noticed.
2006-11-09 10:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by origamix60 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a girldfriend to validate who you are. Just be cool. I'm pretty sure you'll meet lots of new people. The thing about going to a new place is that they're old and you're new. People are just as curious about who you are, where did you live, where did you get those shoes, are people really like this or that? Be prepared to answer many questions.
2006-11-09 10:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by freeme529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just moved into a new city myself, infact in a new country. I was thinking the same way you are thinking when I was planing to move. The thing I learned is that people have a lot of things in common. We are the same. Talk to them in the same way you want others to talk to you. You are probably thinking that they will be so different. They are not.
2006-11-09 10:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? What city are you moving into?
I know an exotic dancer in almost every state that is a faithful loving person. I f you tell me all these things then I can hook you up with one if you are 17 or older!
2006-11-09 10:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in 11th grade. I'm an outcast. I wear all black and have black hair, and I don't fit in with anyone. And I am doing just fine. What's wrong with being an outcast? Lifes only as bad as you make it.
2006-11-09 10:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Why Not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On your first day at the new school go to the quarterback of the football team and kick his *** in front of everyone. Make sure to have a few cheerleaders witness. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 10:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get involved in as many activities as possible.. I moved last year... im a senior in high school... think of this as a fresh new start!! Get involved in everything sports chess, whatever... go to parties! meet people. If you go in confident you will be seen as a confident young man... what city are you moving to??
2006-11-09 10:04:31 · answer #11 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋