but it aint really my thang u know? i know lots of guys love it,Am i just strange or ..?discuss
2006-11-09 09:32:16 · 30 answers · asked by zack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
(f) is for female
2006-11-09 09:43:47 · update #1
basically some like it and some don't i take it by your question you have actually done the deed before now? OK well she likes it that's not a problem the problem is as i have read it and i may be wrong that she wants it that way because maybe just maybe she isn't happy with the other part of your sex life aka front half i am not saying your not good enough I'm just saying try some experimenting etc try new moves try different posies maybe she has become board with your style if that doesn't help you when you change your style them you really need to talk to her about why she finds it so fascinating to have back action insteed of front there just may be some thing you you don't know that is why she would rather that so if changing your styles a Lil doesn't help seriously talk to your lady you may discover more as to her liking things you didn't even know before it cant hurt best of luck and each to there own its not my thing but i have heard its either way painful or way exciting either way not me.
2006-11-09 09:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are those women who enjoy doing this, or should I say, having it done to them. Some of them can actually reach an orgasm this way.
Second part: If it is not your thing then it is not your thing. No one should have to perform any sexual activity they are not comfortable with.
I liked the suggestions in the other answers to try a vibe or a dildo. That way you can work on the front and still give her what she wants. This can sometimes send a woman into a high level of sexual enjoyment.
To the ones that think there is something dirty about the anus, you need to go back and study anatomy. The only time there is any waste product there is when you have to poop.
One caution: If you do try the back door, do not go to the front door unless you thoroughly wash with soap. Switching doors that way can give the woman a nasty infection.
2006-11-09 13:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by SevenZulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all guy like "back door action" some don't like it because they like to play around and and stay kind. Others would take advantage of this. But i must say this if you don't want to don't but if you are unsure give it a try. I know that some people are scared of the out come. That is the reason that most guys don't do it. If you do decide to then be careful but don't let her take advantage of you. That is the last thing that you want.
2006-11-09 09:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by darkangelquarantine7410 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's probably so eager because so many guys like the tightness of "the back door" she is eager to please you and thinks if you try it, you'll love it.
tell her you don't like the idea and rather than you loving it, you will lose interest all together.
if it's for her pleasure (she's the odd one!!) then why not use a vibrator? she can have her pleasure with out you having to put things where you don't want them.
I'm glad you were brave enough to ask this question and i hope you get the advice you need.
a healthy sex life is very important in a relationship, not the be all end all but very important. good luck, hope you sort it out for her x
2006-11-09 09:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very sensitive and very brave to ask. I have managed to get to a ripe age and along the way answered as honestly as I can any questions whatever they are/were from my kids/friends/family, now answering for strangers. I guess she has had experience of this prior to you and finds it works for her, point is, you find it's 'not your thing' therefore you need to stop and think about any further sexual relationship here, I say this because if you were to marry then you would not fulfill her if you can't do the things she desires, it's not for me to judge the rights or wrongs of other folks wants. look for a girl you can feel comfortable with and move on with.
2006-11-09 12:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must admit it is not my cup of tea. I think an ar+e is for having a sh+t out of and nothing else. Just my opinion. I like the real Mc coy at the front.
2006-11-09 09:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not strange,some people like some dont
that hole is 4 things 2 come out of not 2 be inserted
2006-11-09 09:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by dr_gonzo_1974 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not strange. I find it a bit odd. After all that's the waste pipe in it! Why don't you suggest some plastic ones instead? I use them on him now and then.
2006-11-09 09:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Clare 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre arent strange! I dont like guys back there on me!
Are you even old enough to be doing these things?
2006-11-09 09:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ariel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋