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until latly mymom has always been a good mom but theese last few monthsshes became a total bith for starters she has mad at me like everyday like pms now she told me that i canplay sportsi want i take usuallytake piano grappling wrestling and karate. i just told heryesterday that ididnt want to wrestle then she said fin e thats yourchoosereally roo and thenshe went well since your not going to wrestle youll have a bunch of cores to do and by the way your not going to sit around the house .you no youve gained at least ten pounds theese last weeks.she makes me feel like a piece of shi and then she says howitreat everybody sorood.ima a b honerolle student in jr high that has got agood behavioral award the last coupleweeks plus i have been awarded with certificates saying im an honered in the top 5% ofstudentsin the country. my one grandma always told me that my mom was too strict but she wasnt like this till lately.she used to say she was lucky to have a kid like me now she says im a pain

no my mom doesnt do drugs and she can barely drink a glass of whine without being totally drunk.her work has been fine .i think its my dad he always tells her to be more strict and that shes a pussy for treating me like a baby but she never has

o and i do do a lot of chores i clean the gunea pigs cage feed the dog take out the trash and clear the table.im an only child and i was under too much pressure with sports and grades because i almost got a c in algebra plus i miss talking to all my friends.i feel like im losing relationships with everyone but jocks and my best friend. i get depressed too when she treats me like this and i tend to just lay in bed all day or go on the computer because i dont feel like i should bother doing it then the next day i feel better and get mad because i will never get a full scholarship with a c and laying in bed not doing homework isnt going to help

Answer 1

Poor you....mommy is mean.
Deal with it. She's your mom, and you have no choice. It's part of growing up. We all hated our moms at one time or another. Get over it.

Answer 2

This certainly isnt an excuse for her behavior, but it may be a reason: She has something going on in her life that is causeing her extreme stress and she is taking it out on you. You are a good kid, dont let what she is doing change that. When she gets like this, you can say one little thing in a calm voice: "You're different now". She will either get defensive (dont bother arguing back) or it will open her eyes.
Good luck.

Answer 3

Something is going on with your mom definitely.
there has been a change in her behaviour.....
Is there stress with you dad or with a sister or brother.....Is she working right now..
There could be a million things going wrong in her life.
Talk to your grandparent and see if they know something.
Could there be a drug or alcohol problem...
Talk to family and get some feed back......Keep up the good work in school and spend a little more time helping out at home and see if it helps.... pick up after yourself, take out the garbage and do the dishes......

Answer 4

Mom may be in menopause and you are growing up.
So often friction starts now.
She will always love you and in a few years everything will smooth out.
Tell her what upsets you just as you told everyone in your question here.

Answer 5

Sit down and talk to your mom and remind her how things use to be oppose to the way things are becoming. My kids always get me this way. At lot of times things go on in adult lives and they indirectly take it out on the people closest to them and it isn't fair. Talk to your mom.

Answer 6

she probaly hasnt got laid and thats whats causing her stress trust me i know my principal is like that shes a real ***** and she used to be nice and people say its because she hasnt got laid in a long *** time but thats why she is ***** so chances are that thats what it could be so trust me everyone needs to have sex even your mom as nasty as this may sound this might be the reason why hoped i helped a bit