This question is for married man and if you cheat once...will you always cheat.. is that a myth or is it true?

Question

If you a married man cheated on your wife with another married woman and say you kissed her 2wice and made out with her on the couch...then you decided you won't go any further...half way of the sex is what you did. And now that a year has gone by and you run into her more. Would you talk to her, would you stare at her, would you continue to receive and reply to her emails, or would you break off everything and just be friends? And don't you think once you have the affair and its emotional that there is no chance for friendship? Either love or hatred will come right? What woudl you do men?

Answer 1

when a guy cheats, its because of 2 things: he wanted to, and he had the opportunity. there are lots of married people (men and women) that feel the urge to cheat from time to time, but they dont because theres nobody to cheat with. sometimes an attractive outside person comes along, and the opportunity is there, but the person was psyched against it

so to answer your question, it depends on whether the guy still has the urge to cheat, and the opportunity, at the same time. if he cheats once, its hard to say he will cheat again or not. its totally dependent on the guys mentality and the situation

Answer 2

He probably craves excitement - perhaps more so than an average person. Some people go on african safaris or climb mountains to get this rush of excitement, and others find thrills in conquering the opposite sex. The thrill-seeking behaviour is not neccessarily a reflection of the feelings a person has for his significant other; just as he may love his wife and still go climb Mount Everest, he will go out and engage in flings - all the while sincerely maintaining that he loves her. She had to have known what she was getting into when she stayed with this guy and married him. If she can't accept this part of his personality - she needs to look for someone who is more closely matched to her idea of a good mate. She's wasting her time - it sounds like he had given her plenty of evidence that he will not be changing anytime soon. It was rather foolish to expect that a marriage certificate would change anything between them.

Answer 3

Your initial question is the one I want to address because you make it sound like we are not in control of our actions. We are more than mere animals EXISTING. We are the only species with the capability of right and wrong. You basically have 2 choices: Do or Do not. You decide and then it is up to you to handle the consequences that come.

My advice...stay away from that dangerous slope all together. The closer you get the more likely you will be to slide down.

Answer 4

Dude if i was in the couch the only way i was going to stop is if was done. And no i wont be friends with a girl unlessss im getting some. Belive me your wife wount belive you if you tell her you were just having a cup of cofffffy.
Dont you have any guy friends ?

Answer 5

Kissing her and making out isn't exactly cheating..
It is not good and it is a betrayal of trust but cheating to
me means actual sex...
And no, just because someone cheats once does not mean
they will do it again..

Answer 6

you should not say men cheat , we just have sex with other girls ( that is what we do ) my wife does not know so it doesn't hurt her - you should always remember men are men , and you are just a woman -- I hope this helps you

Answer 7

he cheated - but he broke it off. that means theres hope. but his continued relationship is unacceptable. thats one of the prices you pay "forsaking all others" he needs to drop her out of his life totally, and you two need to seek professional guidance. there must be discipline, devotion and honor, and he needs to re-earn the trust and faith that he broke. you need to be willing to let him earn it.

Answer 8

and you think because one will answer all will be that way??? and you're going to believe a cheater??? DUMB AS S!