Women: What type of foreplay really turns you on and how does a man know when a woman is ready for sex?

Question

Try to keep it clean....Please give age and marital status.

Answer 1

I like it slow at first. NEVER underestimate the power of kissing. Those long, loose lips, explorative kisses. I also like having my neck kissed just behind the ears or lower where it meets the shoulder... After a while, I like the breast fondled, first over the clothing while kissing, then under. With slight pinching of the nipples, which can increase in pressure as it gets harder. Once the clothes come off, kissing around the breast is wonderful, not just concentrating on suckling the nipples. Then start caressing along the waist and rib cage, down to the hips and thighs. The area behind the knees is very sensitive at that point. Also don't underestimate her back. Slow, slightly wet kisses down the spine are very erotic. As are small nibbles to the buttocks. Working your way to her clitoris and massaging that with increasing pressure until her breath starts coming in short pants and her hips involuntarily begin to writhe. You will notice that this little nub becomes hard and erect, very much like a tiny penis. Her entire vagina will become softer and swollen, and there would be definite moisture, which is what allows you to penetrate without hurting her. To keep this moisture flowing and to spread it around, dip fingers in periodically and use it to lubricate your hand movements, (which you'll need, or it'd rub her sore.)

Many of us find it difficult to express this readiness in words, so listen and watch her body's reaction. We are often also uncomfortable telling you if you're doing it wrong, so encourage her to be honest and listen to her replies. Sometimes she will tell you to get inside, just to get it over with if you're doing it wrong. If you try and encounter dryness, she's not ready for you yet and there's little chance of her climaxing. It's unfortunate, but even in this day and age, women are not fully comfortable with their sexuality and the men are woefully ignorant of how a woman's body works...

I am 34. Married to a god among men for 4 years. A widow for almost 2 years.

I commend you on your search for knowlege.

Answer 2

As you stated, if the guy have been given off first, he'd tend to pass to sleep. that's actual and somewhat sturdy. it could be very attainable to drop off to sleep interior seconds if a guy supplies in to the urge. maximum combat it and the urge to sleep passes after a jiffy, however the lethargy continues to be. i've got in no way observed an significant distinction in high quality of orgasm based on the size of foreplay. Orgasms are greater extreme in accordance with certainly one of those components, yet length of foreplay isn't area of this. area of the issue for many adult males is the dividing of intercourse into 'foreplay' and 'actual' intercourse. in the event that they simply think of of the full adventure as sexual play, they could make the adventure lots greater relaxing for the two companions. adult males can orgasm numerous situations a consultation. After-play will become greater foreplay. Oral, massages, sharing fantasies, even time outs to have a snack can all be relaxing. (For the snack it enables no depend if that's interior sight as to not hose down the temper. shrink fruit, chocolate sauce, and juice or iced espresso are an incredible menu to start from.)

Answer 3

I had it done one time and it was by accident. The inside of my "kitty" was being probed and stroked by 2 or 3 fingers as I was laying in his lap kissing and fondling when all of a sudden his pinky finger started lightly stroking the outer ring and about an inch inside my chocolate shoot! All of this was happening at one time and it was a feeling that just took over my body. I experienced the most exhilarating climax ever of my life that night! I am 32 now but I was about 27 then when it happened. ( To this day I know he did not realize what he had did, it was an accident but yet a good accident!

Answer 4

think you asked about foreplay didn't you?
prior answers don't sound a lot like foreplay to me.
a woman will let you know when she is turned on enough and wants penetrative sex. if she doesn't she probably isn't!
teasing's always good before oral....which should almost always come before penetration.

Answer 5

hand or tongue*** in my experience the man doesnt know when ready ... have to tell them,,,lol
(25 married)

Answer 6

Differs from women to women, I have found.

Answer 7

a couple of fingers in the cherry pie