I've moved to a new school about 2 months and have not really met any friends yet, is this normal?
2006-11-09 09:12:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you're normal! I'm guessing that you're shy too! it's not always easy making new friends in a new place. but the best thing to do is start saying hi to a few people. that will let them know you're interested in making friends. then work your way up to talking to them and being a little more open. tell them where you're from and some of your interests, and ask them what some of their interests are. that's a start! someone has to make the first move, and it might as well be you!
don't worry, you're going to make friends!
2006-11-09 09:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doomed you are not ! confused mabye but i know this for sure that you are a bit scared. relax i mean from all the school there have to be someone who will like you as a friend ! you just dont try hard as you can and dont look beond the people faces ! if you r still in panic i know a woman which can help you ! write me and i will give you her email ! she helped me a lot !
2006-11-09 17:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Leona 666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sort of. Maybe you should think about joining some clubs or getting involved in sports or something at school, related to your interests. if there's nothing at school, join or take other classes like martial arts or fine arts. Otherwise, you're just going to class and going home. Hard to make friends that way.
2006-11-09 17:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know the kids in your class, first then branch out from there. Be friendly and outgoing, you can't be shy and meet new people.. Try one of the committees or clubs to meet some people that have common interests... You must get out of your comfort zone and be more vocal.. Maybe you can try out for a team sport or if you are good in school you could offer tutoring services to kids..... You are not meeting people cause you are waiting for them to come to you.... step out of your shell and get out there
2006-11-09 17:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. Kids are used to their groups and sometimes cold to outsiders. Get involved in some group, activity or sport and that should help break the ice.
2006-11-09 17:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is perfectly normal, especially if you're in high school. it's really hard if you're in high school because this is that point in your life when everyone has made long-lasting groups and friends that they keep and usually don't let anyone else in. what you need to do is make a statement, be yourself and not care what anyone else thinks. you have nothing to lose, just to gain! it will all be hard, but it will be worth it. good luck!
2006-11-09 17:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by crzyhottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, you are in either 2-8th grade?
DOOMED? Geez. People with AIDS are doomed. People with some kinds of cancer are doomed. Abused children, starving villages, diseased people.....are doomed.
You aren't doomed. Your a child.
2006-11-09 17:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but 2 months dang it only took me 1 day until i got all my friends. Try to talk to some of them that will help alot.
2006-11-09 17:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, have you reached out and tried to be friendly to others? If you've just been queit waiting for some one to befriend you then it's normal but if you've reached out and got the cold shoulder then it's not normal.
2006-11-09 17:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Crisscross 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should join a sport or something so you meet some new people chances are most likely that you will meet at least one friend like this and meet some new people and talk about that same sport hope this helps
2006-11-09 17:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋