all ready got a 2 year old preg again i would like to keep it but partner says hes not ready 4 anpther1 yet so he wants me to get ride of it but i dont want to leave him wat do i do?
2006-11-09 09:09:58 · 20 answers · asked by kirsty 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Think before getting pregnant. In your case you're a little late for that, so tell your partner to man up!
2006-11-09 09:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ken 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What a shame that's. I truthfully have noting to declare I only nodded my head in the time of your ghetto paragraph. i'm hoping you visit college so as which you will better enhance your language skills and not form like a ghetto guy or woman. Your lil bro... unhappy. This disgusts me "da sexually lively situation runs in da family contributors." Wow. You and your 19 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous spouse, your 13 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous bro that have been given a 17 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous woman pregnant is an occasion of why black people have a bad stereotype.
2016-10-21 13:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by wach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this guy sound like a real winner. If he didn't want a child, he would've worn a condom or stayed away from sex PERIOD. I don't think that people truly understand that the true reason for sex is for reproduction. Every time you lay down with someone, you run the risk of bringing a child into the world.
Ultimately, it is your decision. You shouldn't let his childishness persuade you in any way. If he isn't going to be there for you and BOTH children, then tell him you will see him in court. He is being selfish and acting like a child. However, if you find that you don't want this child either, then please please please put that baby up for adoption. There are many loving couples out there who are unable to have children who would love your baby. Don't kill a baby because of what YOU did.
2006-11-09 09:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should have known the risk of you getting pregnant every time you had sex. So unfortunately for him, he needs to take responsibility and act like the adult who was laying down with you when it happened. if he's not an adult enough for a baby, he shouldn't be having sex in the first place. that's not the baby's fault that he cant handle things , and the poor baby shouldn't be punished for it. So I'm sorry you are having such a hard time right now. but im sure you will choose the right thing. good luck :)
2006-11-09 09:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that really should have been taken into consideration before getting pegnant.
I think you and your partner need to sit down and have a very serious adult conversation. This isn't a desicion that I think either one of you should have the upper hand on.
You are both parents already and need to discuss it in a calm rational way and state both sites.
2006-11-09 09:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by kista_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of too late to decide whether he wants another baby or not. You guys had sex made another baby and that is that. Geez, you cant kill your baby. Imagine if you would have done that to the child you have now. I have a 9 year old, a 7 year old, a 2 year old and Im pregnant with our last baby. We were happy with all of them. Each child is a blessing and if he cant see that then he is not worth being with. I just cant imagine being with a guy who wanted me to get rid of the baby.
2006-11-09 09:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he will leave you someday anyway -- he is looking for an excuse. If he truly loves you, there would not be these threats --- Dump the bum!! If you can't take care of the new baby, there are lots of people that want to adopt. Abortion should not be a choice of birth control.
2006-11-09 09:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by GP 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Catch 22. If you get rid of it you will not be able to forgive your partner and that will end the relationship. If you keep it and your partner leaves you then good riddence to him. He is not a man if he is willing to kill his own baby. This isn't a stray animal here.
2006-11-09 09:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By law, whatever you want to do is the only opinion that really counts, but if you can come to a decision together, it would be healthier for the relationship. Unfortunately, there is no middle ground here. You either keep it, or you don't.
2006-11-09 09:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved u he would love the new bundle of joy on the way leave or if u really want him more than the baby put the baby up for adoptian but dont have an abrotoin besides it's against the law to force a woman to kill her baby and u can deside wat to do without his consent thank god for the admenedments good luck hon
2006-11-09 09:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋