There is this man that I'm interested in and we have met back up after not speaking for a lot of years and the two times we have met up we have been kissing and stuff and obviously are attracted to each other. Well last time we were together and we were kissing and heading towards having sex, and he asked me "Do you want this continue past tonight?" I said I did and he said he did too. So do you think was that his way of asking me to be his girlfriend? And now we're in a relationship? Thanks for your responses!!!
2006-11-09 08:56:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks for your answers! For those of you who mentioned my age or maturity level, I'm not that young, I'm 30. But I just wanted to know if I was reading into this because I want it to be true, or what. I will ask him next time I talk to him. Thanks again!
2006-11-09 09:17:33 · update #1
no he is just horny for now! so i'd get to know him again before u jump him!
2006-11-09 08:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not getting best answer for this one.....
If you have to ask strangers if you are in a relationship then you are not mature enough to be in a relationship.
If you are merely asking if we think this man is committed to you then I don't know? I think he wants to see you again. I think he is nice enough to establish this before going further with a physical relationship so that means he is a nice guy so he is worth starting something with!! Sounds like you like the kissing!!!
So go for it but stop worrying about what it is and just enjoy it.
Cheers
2006-11-09 17:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that. Has he contacted you since the last time you saw him? Do you know if he is or has been seeing someone else. Find out whats happening in his life just now be clear when you speak to him & tell him how you feel. You should have your answer in his reaction and his response. Good Luck
2006-11-09 17:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by alexis m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that u are in a relationship now.. U should ask him though to make sure thats what he is calling u..
2006-11-09 17:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have left it like that if you are not certain. It sounds like it from what you are saying but who know, why did you not ask him.
Call him and ask him if he considers you to be exclusive to him and you to him. And how often do you see him expect to be with him.
2006-11-09 16:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 are just friends with benefits
2006-11-09 16:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a situation almost just like this... and i just asked him... and that is the onyl tue way to know what you guys officially are. but it sounds to me like you may be an "item".... good luck with everything..
2006-11-09 16:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by laceylu555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to know if you are treating him as a one-night stand...or if you will put out more for him.
2006-11-09 16:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way you are talking, i think your a tad bit younger than what you are making yourself out to be. you should read between thelines. ask him. dont assume.
2006-11-09 17:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him what he thinks it is..
like "when you asked me if i wanted this to go past tonight, what did you mean by that?"
something along those lines..
2006-11-09 16:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋