I just got married nd i was a virgin till now.my husband knows everything but sometimes he gets angry n says that only he is d one who is doin everything.he knows dat i dont know wat to do?he wants me to learn by myself n i dont know wat to do?i cant ask ne of my friends or relatives its kinda embarrassing.wat should i do?he won't say nething.
2006-11-09 08:54:58 · 26 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
(i am married and i was a virgin too. Don't worry this is normal, you have get in touch with a side of you that you weren't very familiar with, but you'll get use to it.. trust your instincts, and you'll have him begging you for sex)
while he is watching tv, or doing anything that is keeping his concentration like a football game. Start by kissing, licking and blowing slowly in his ear. and then just do EXACTLY what he believes you would never bring yourself to do to him.
2006-11-09 09:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by 2pretty4u 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
lovers guide is very good to give overall advice in where to go and what to suggest you can go on line if too shy to buy anything from store. When he gets angry tell him to be patient it is a great gift you have given him not something to be tossed aside innocence is a great thing dont let him upset you
2006-11-09 09:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by honey 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey he don't want to have to tell you that would spoil it for him if he knew what was coming. Take control of the position in your bedroom and let him see that you got this most men love a woman that can take control in the bedroom. While he's sitting around thinking that nothing is gonna happen put on your sexy best and take control let him know You Got This. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 09:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you could try going on top.
If your husband gets angry, maybe you married the wrong bloke. Marriage is about more than sex. If he loves you, he should show patience and consideration. It takes two to tango, as they say.
2006-11-09 09:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
This may sound strange but it works. Try watching a porn not with him but alone. Start with something soft core. Trust me I have used this method on a few different women and the are now awesome in bed!
2006-11-09 08:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by don b 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Play with yourself and then get him to join you and play with you. It's also helps if you talk about what each wants, likes and dislikes during sex. Don't dive straight into sex, enjoy each others body first. Plenty of foreplay is a definite yes.
2006-11-09 09:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you do your research before you got married? Get some books like the Joy of Sex and Kamasutra. Also get some books on the male and female anatomies and learn how everything works.
2006-11-09 08:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by eehco 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
HMMM! OK my girl , Have you evr heard of SHAKE YOUR MONEY MAKER! in other words. don't lye there like a rock, shake that thing,make his balls ring, visit your local strip club and take some dancing lessons, um they dance exotic for a reason. they dance like there haven sex with ya man, so go forth my child and rock on, bang him until he crys and then bang him again that will surely shut him up! if you need personal lessons ,there free, just call ME.....lololololol good luck
2006-11-09 09:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Find out what you like for your self then the rest will just come naturally
2006-11-09 09:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by dan T 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
try doing a massage,take your time,then just let things come naturally,if you pardon the pun.good luck.
if you really get stuck theres plenty of books and videos !
2006-11-09 09:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Cool Dude 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋