i was i single parent have no contact EVERfrom the childs father his wishies so any i fall in love with my boyfriend we plan to get married have kids etc i just want to know has anybody any ideas to keep the fire in us as a couple just i feel sometimes that i tie him down to much nagging him etc as he has takeing another mans child on as i no its hard for any man to do so i run a playschool so our life is alittle crazy at the momant and i feel i take my stress out of him which is selfish of me i no i just want to no how to show how much i do love him
2006-11-09 08:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by summer loving 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im sorry about my bad grammer as im only leaning how to speak/write english
2006-11-09 09:00:43 · update #1
You want to impress him? Why? He is still with you after two years, he's not looking for you to impress him. First of all, get it out of your head that he's doing you a "favor" by dating you and "taking on" your kids...BS! You need a boost of self-esteem, and fast! He should feel lucky to have you. And you should feel blessed, not naggy, about having a good man. You're playing house....its a game. Make it a reality. If you live together as a husband and wife, why not make official. Then you wont feel as if you are tying him down. If he has says that is the way you make him feel, dump him!!!!! He has the choice to be with you and you have the choice to be with him. Go back to school...take some English classes (your spelling and sentence structure needs work), take some computer classes and a class just for fun. Something just for you. You will meet alot of great, like-minded people. People just like you who are looking for the right stuff. Remember, this man can not make you happy. Only you can do that. Your mind, spirit and heart need to be nurtured. I am a single mom of three. Taking time for me and knowing that I am worthy of ANY man attentions, as are my daughters, took time to learn. But worth it. Find yourself before you look for someone else to find you. Best wishes and keep your head up and a smile on
2006-11-09 09:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by doggiemom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best w ay I can think to impress your man is to sit down with him, and explain to him that you are feeling a lot of stress right now, and you know that you are taking it out on him sometimes. Tell him that it bothers you that you have been doing this, and apologize for it, and are making a strong resolution to get it together and stop doing it. Tell him that you are determined to do that, because you do love him, appreciate him, and want for the two of you to truly make a happy life together as a family. If he is any kind of a man, and he loves you back as much as you say you love him, he will feel very w arm towards you for your honesty, in wanting to share this with him.
2006-11-09 09:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A watch...I bought my Husband a Kenneth Cole Watch for like $60 and he loved it. I like planning a night out or a date or something like that. I did research ...and packed a lunch w/ wine and we sat outside listening to an outdoor concert...it was free too!! If you don't do outdoors it is always fun to get a nice little sexy black dress and take him out for drink at a new place....kind of different than him taking you on a date b/c u are the one initiating it u know.
2016-03-19 05:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he loves you he loves your child package deal end of story. Even though it's wonderful that he treats your son as his own you dont owe him anything for that because if he truly loves you thats what love is. As for keeping the fire burning & making him happy tell him every day that u love him & put up with the in law bull if that happens. Good luck
2006-11-09 08:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show him love affection and be sweet kind self, Be sexy for your man in a way he hasn't seen try wearing a gartbelt and stockings while cooking him a great meal when the kids arn't around
2006-11-09 09:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, have a friend or relative watch the kid for an evening and treat him to a night just to the two of you.
2006-11-09 08:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cook him his favorite meal without him asking you and give him a hot sloppy BJ for dessert. He will be impressed, I guarantee it.
2006-11-09 08:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by tex37curious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, start out by geting a sitter for the weekend, (mom or sister) and take him on a weekend, to a place he likes, your treat... and baby him and pamper him all weekend long...
2006-11-09 08:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am in the same situation as yourself and I think the only way to show your partner that you truely do love him is to tell him. Communication is the way to go.
Goodluck!!
2006-11-09 08:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by bbrcss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to school and learn how to spell properly..you will not only impress him...we will all be amazed.
2006-11-09 09:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by kev_wieren 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋