they call other people f@gs and s!uts. they say that other ppl are g@y ...they find any way to make other girls that aren't "popular" life miserable...they get people to annoy them and stuff..
this gurl is like making up rumors about me, that rnt true...and im trying to "over throw her"
shes popular, im not, every1 knows me, but, im not "popular"
anyways - so, without telling anybody, what can i do to get people on my side and annoy her! Nobody has ever stood up to her...no gurls at least
anyway...shes a wh0rebag and a s!ut!! because she actualli did hav sex with somebodi...anyywayy - so..should i make a rumor about her or what?
2006-11-09 08:32:04 · 19 answers · asked by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ever1 knos shes had sex so i cant spread anything more than the truth
2006-11-09 08:38:34 · update #1
I am 12 and i think there parents not raise them good and that why they grow up to be mean. I am in middle school and i not ever act that way to others! I am not so popular girl but i am happier with friends i have and they are not mean either so it is not everyone just those who are insecur and like to make other feel bad. It make me mad see it at my school!
Even if you not populare you are probably much nicer than girl who tell lie and rumor about you. I hope no one believe rumors about you GOOD LUCK K
2006-11-09 11:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyways - so, without telling anybody, what can i do to get people on my side and annoy her! Nobody has ever stood up to her...no gurls at least
anyway...shes a wh0rebag and a s!ut!! because she actualli did hav sex with somebodi...anyywayy - so..should i make a rumor about her or what?
You are just as bad as her if you make a rumor. Just ignore her and eventually she will give it up. She's the one who needs help, not you. You just shouldn't be as bad as her by making up crap about her.
2006-11-09 16:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People only call each other names so they can make someone look bad with a false reputation. I went through the same thing when I was younger and I got through it. Popularity is not important. Just focus on your friends and you'll be fine. And there is nothing wrong with having sex. If she believes she is old enough and mature enough to deal with that and the consequences that may come out of that decision, let her be. Do not start a rumor about her because that is just sinking down to her level. Why would you want to do something mean like that anyway?
2006-11-09 17:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by mmandypanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Middle School is the time everyone is trying to decide where they are going to fit in. Girls are insecure about how they look, and if the boys are looking more at them, or if they are popular enough, on and on. But the boys are interested in how many girls are going to fall all over them self for them, whats happening with sports, and MOST OF ALL when and how they are going to get a girl to give up her VIRGINITY and have SEX!!!!!! So, instead of lowering yourself to the SAME level as everyone else, why don't you be your own nice self, and worry about just you- and how you could improve your life for the better. YOU won't regret it-believe me. Get more involved with your school, and work on trying to higher your self-esteem. That way these other things won't seem so important to you, and remember revenge will only cause more trouble for you in the long run.
2006-11-09 16:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U seem like a friend that I have who also was the victim of girls who tried 2 make up rumors about her and stuff.
And guess what? I think she's jelous of u.
I don't think u should do the make up a rumor thing, because, then people will find out, and.. u'll end up as stupid as her.
Just act cool, and when she says or does something against u, just act as if u think what she's doing is really dumb (which u really do, with all reason) and she'll feel ridiculous. Believe me. Hope it helps.
oxox,
Little Cowy
2006-11-09 16:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T start a rumor about her because
A: it'll show her that she was able to get to you by getting to a soft spot
B: it'll most likely anger/upset her, and make her want to get more revenge on you (I'm assuming this based on what you said about her starting a rumor about you)
and C: the problem will just get worse if you fight back using what she used.
I think the best thing for you to do is just ignore her and stick with your good friends. Middle school is a crazy experience, but it's loads of fun and filled with excitement as well. You just need to work through the problems that many middle schoolers face and try your best to focus on creating experiences that'll benefit you throughout high school, college, and even life. You have to do this, even though it may not always be the popular thing to do. I did it, and although I was somewhat shunned because of it, I maintained good friendships in middle school and I feel proud and happy that I was able to go against what was popular.
And that's not always easy. If you're able to do that, you're probably stronger and more persistent than your peers who wear the "cool" clothing and act "cool" and all that. Trust me, don't give in to popularity.
As for how to stand up against them, and how to be yourself, what my favorite social studies teacher told me applies here, too "Just do it."
2006-11-10 14:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Green Emotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...thats a hard one
you shouldn't do stuff like that- you're just as bad as her. instead, try and win people over by being her opposite- I gaurantee that they'll tire of her fast.
however, I've been in your position. some things that I frantasised about doing, but never did (for several apparent reasons)
try and figure out if other people don't like her- chances many people won't (and also most of her friends), by talking about her and planning your own rebellion.
and you could quietly try and sabotage her, but untaceably.
like go to a counselor and say that you're worried abou her- that she's been having sex. Most likely her parents will be called and she'll be grounded.
Or get a sn and im people and say that you're her- don't do anything outlandish, but say you're her and im her friends mean comments (like if you've ever read the clique series, pull a claire)
or send out invitations to a party 'from her', but dont invite her close friends (and use her adress as the return adress)
2006-11-09 18:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 13 year old cousin is going to a school where all kids are feral and are out to stir up trouble and look for a fight.
In the end the bullying started on her and her older brother had begged his mum to take her out of that school because he has seen what kind of things they do to other irls and he didn't want his sister to be bashed by a group of girls. Well my cousin will not tolerate being bullied, she had no one on her side as they were to scared so she was alone. One day she had enough, she waited for this girl to be alone and she grabbed he up against a wall and punched the living daylights out of her, it got harder she had a mob of Aboriginal girls then wanting to tumble her. She had left the school for a short while then came back. She had another girl come up and start chesting her for a fight as she had done so with other girls and they had backed off, my cousin puffed her chest out and chested her back and said well come on and kept chesting her forward until she backed off.
My cousin has won alot of respect, she has never backed down and girls now know not to mess with her.
I am not saying that this is what you should do, but don't act like a scared little rabbit either, keep your head up high because in the end it will always come back and bite them on the ***.
2006-11-09 21:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by shellhiggs07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't believe that would resolve the problem. It will only cause bigger problems. I would go and talk to the counselor at ur school. You know it might sound like ur being a tattle tale, but if u play into her game and something serious happens it will be in ur head that u could have done something about it. It's always best if an adult know's about it. To be honest she can't be that big and bad. Maybe an adult can put her in her place.
2006-11-09 16:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry honey but u r being just like one of them I mean, u r just doing the same that they do. Does it really matter what she's saying about u??? is it going to make an influence on ur life??? she's just a stupid girl who's life is so miserable that she just wants other people to be like her. So... on a school full of stupid, brainless people, does what that insignificant people say about u really matters??
If u r smart enough u'll take a good decision, good luck! =)
2006-11-09 16:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋