OK so im in the closet im more of a preppy type but its this realllly cute italian skater openly bi guy at my school hes 100 percent masculine I love that so anyways I think I would have a good chance of hooking up with him but do you think he would tell anyone if i tried to holler ... lol im in the closet aand please dont say just come out i will decide that on my own time
15/m/bi/in the closet
2006-11-09 08:17:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Does he seem like the kind of guy who would out you, or do you not know him well enough to even make the judgement? Most people, in my experience, are kind enough to keep things under wraps for your sake . . . the hard part comes when a relationship starts, and then its not either of you saying anything, just the clues and hints that come out.
I'd give it a whirl! Take a shot and good luck!
2006-11-09 11:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasn't this a Mary Wells song? "Nothing you can do can make me untrue to bi guy. No muscle bound man can take my hand from bi guy". BI the way, if you're preppy and eyeing guys, I'm willing to bet that you're pretty much out of the closet already.
2006-11-09 08:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Debra D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bit biased on this issue.
First off, I believe the "Gay" acts are a willing choice. One is not gay or straight, they choose to engage in either activity of their own free will.
Having said that, I don't believe in "Gay" acts.
At 15 there are plenty of things running through our minds. I was 15 for a year and now I am a father of a 15 year old son and a 16 year old son.
At 15, I remember thinking that I knew what I wanted and that nobody could tell me what to do...even when I asked, I had my mind made up.
At 15, I had no thought about the future...rather I was into whatever I wanted at that moment.
You will do what you will do, nobody hear can steer you in one direction or another.
My question to you: What are the short term and long term rewards and consequences of the choices you are about to make?
2006-11-09 08:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You always run a chance of it getting out by telling anyone if you aren't ready. However, if you feel that this guy will keep your secret safe until you wanna come on out ... than I say go for it.
Now ... go get it tiger !!!!!
2006-11-09 08:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe of so. i do not favor to waste my time on someone who's insecure and doesn't even recognize if he's in touch interior an similar sex. it would want to be disappointing to placed a good number of attempt into being with someone who later comes to a decision he doesn't favor to this point adult adult males after all.
2016-11-28 23:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by rieck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is always that risk of him telling. i personally am against homosexuality and everything that goes with it. God designed it to be Adam and EVE! not Adam and stEVE. if you think you have a shot with this guy then why not? or are you ashamed if everyone finds out?
2006-11-09 08:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Starry Eyes 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Most likely he will out you.. but wouldn't it be worth it?
2006-11-09 08:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
holler. for sure.
2006-11-09 08:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Scrappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's hella hot and cute, i'd holla. who cares wut people have ta say. if u wanna screw him, do it
2006-11-09 09:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋