Tell me why you think spouses cheat??

Question

I want to hear from all why they think spouses cheat.

Answer 1

Neglect
Drugs/Alcohol
Selfishness

Answer 2

There are different reasons why spouses cheat and while none of them are morally right, this is something that will continue to happen. Many women cheat because of a lack of emotional bonding in their relationships. If the woman is not reassured that she is sexy, beautiful, tempting etc then she may seek that affection elsewhere. As well, some women cheat because the sex is just plain boring and they want excitement in their bedroom. For men, it's just a little more simple. Men who cheat usually have a great relationship with their wives. I have talked to men about this and they say that they cheat because the other women is a hot piece of ***. But basically, all pussy is the same. As well, I'm sure men cheat if their wives become repulsive and vice versa..

Answer 3

telling serves no purpose other than to deliberatly try to hurt or place blame upon the spouse. The person telling is doing so only to cleanse his/her OWN conscience. Either the person who cheated feels so badly about it that he will never do it again or they don't. If it's the former then telling will mean that both people need to heal and fix themselves instead of just the cheater. If it's the latter then the marriage is lost and they should just end it. That being said...once the spouse knows about the transgression then the cheater should disclose all. It's the only way to start the healing process. Otherwise the spouse will always wonder what really happened.

Answer 4

Mostly because there is not enough communication and their needs are not being met. This is also caused by low self esteem issues and the offender will often pursue extramarital affairs as a way of proving themselves to either themself or their peer group.Lastly some people cheat as a method of exacting revenge on an unfaithful partner. None the above reasons are valid excuses for cheating and if one is honest with themself and their mate they can often be avoided.

Answer 5

they meet someone else, and usually happens during a time in the marriage when there are problems, he feels unloved and unappreciated, and there is a woman out there or man who is doing all they can do to get them away from u. it is hard to compete with something new and more promising in their eyes. some cheat out of revenge, or that they are mad at u, some cheat for financial gain, maybe they have totally messed up their marriage, and don't know what to do to fix it, nor do they want to invest the time and effort in it, so they just move on where it's new and more exciting to them, and void of the problems they have with the current mate. also in times of stress and trouble when a mate leaves it does show u their true character, and they wouldn't be there for u anyway if u got sick, or unable to perform spousal duties they would have moved on anyway.most of the time they just aren't happy, and they have met someone else and that someone else is putting alot of pressure on them to get rid of the current mate.

Answer 6

The thrill of the forbidden--they think the grass is greener over there.
Because they DO NOT LOVE you---they would not cheat if they did.
Because it's a pattern, or they think its ok.

Answer 7

Boredom in their marriage, the thrill, something lacking in their relationship at home like communication, quality time, etc. To feel wanted.

Answer 8

If you do not get EVERYHTING you desire and I MEAN EVERYTHING.....then there are 1000's of men and women out there who will do it for you whether it is O A BDSM GROPU DOGGING W/S swapping anything or whether it is someone who fdoes not nag and whine..or who dresses to impress or is not fat...or smelly....it is not rocket science..but PLEASE ignore the bitter, the fat, the puritans, the single for lifes, the religious and the 13 year olds who post.....they are not of this Earth

Answer 9

firstly someone shud do something to stop this.....i know its next to impossible.....according to me....i think males have a tendency...when they are not looked after properly they search for a more entertaining and loving company...ultimately it leads to the so called extra marital affair......it might be due to lack of proper communication,financial matters,lacking chemistry,boring marital life on the whole according to a male partner.....so,ladies i guess we ve to do something or ther to keep males busy...with anything....give them something new.....love them.....give ur time to them.......just u n he......he ll be all urs.....

Answer 10

all cheaters have different excuses