Only mature and intelligent responds, thank you. this is my third serious relationship. We are very happy and very much in love. the problem is that I can't get her to achieve an orgasm from sexual intercourse only by oral. I have tried everything in the book. All my ex-gf have achieved orgasm in the past. I am become frustrated and I am near giving up my efforts. Any suggestions???
2006-11-09 08:08:57 · 13 answers · asked by rich 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Menthol helps. Apparently it produces quite a sensation down there for her. You might try oral first with a Halls mint or some similar brand, just to get it on there, and then switch to coitus.
2006-11-09 08:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to not put any pressure on her or tell her that she's the only one of your girlfriends who hasn't achieved an orgasm through penetration. Just be patient with her and give her the feeling that it's ok for you if it doesn't happen.
I don't want to be rude, but have you ever thought that your other gfs might have been faking? Sorry, but a lot of women do that so they don't disappoint their man.
Just keep doing like you are right now, and it'll eventually happen. Had the same problem and it was solved through patience and lots of experimenting around.
2006-11-09 16:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by HP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked a question like this about a week ago. I was worried that something was wrong with me because I couldnt have a vaginal orgasm only from clitoral stimulation. My question eventually got deleted but before it did I had learned from several woman and a website that most woman dont experience vaginal orgasms. There arnt very many nerves inside a woman's vagina. The main sexual organ is the clitoris. Usually woman fake it because they dont want the man to feel bad. If you want her to have an orgasm you need to constantly stimulate the clitoris during vaginal sex. Try having sex ''spooning'' she can bring her leg back exposing her clitoris and you can stimulate it with your fingers. You can also have her be on top and place a figure under her clitoris and while she is ''riding'' you she can stimulate her clitoris. I tried these things and it works! I hope I could help!
2006-11-09 16:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by angel l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to have more foreplay before vaginal intercourse is started. Make sure she is stimulated. You can also try to use different positions--that seems to help. She will let you know which ones she likes best and which does the most for her
2006-11-09 18:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by cherry c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe try different positions, one that would create friction on her clitoris. is this an ego thing or has she told you she is not satisfied? have you asked her if shes had an orgasm with intercourse in her past relationships? maybe it is just her & she cant??
2006-11-09 16:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by MANDEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stimulate her clitoris when you are penetrating her. Or have her do it. Be honest and ask her if there is anything she wants to try, that you want her to climax and enjoy it. Let her on top, so she can control "the situation". Good luck! :)
2006-11-09 16:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by metallicachic82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you can only do it by oral than keep it up maybe she just is not relax or concentrating dont give up be patient I'am sure she will come around
2006-11-09 16:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may not be you, some women have to have clitoral stimulation as well as penetration...try positions that you are able to stimulate both and see how that works...good luck!
2006-11-09 16:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by Janhellyca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her what works for her. for some its only going to be outside stimulation like oral/toys, stuff like that.
2006-11-09 16:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all women r the same, some never orgasm thru penetration alone
2006-11-09 16:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by BabyCakes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋