my bf of 2 years broke up with me in tuesday. he said he doesnt love me anymore. then he said he doesnt trust me cause i accidentally told 2 WHITE LIES> that wouldnt have effected our relationship at all btu i stupidly made the mistakes. all fo this happened over 6 months ago and he said he;s going to try his best to forgive me.
today i asked him if he misses me and he said of course he does. he has been here for me already. he answers all fo my wuestions ont he phone while im crying liek a baby cause idont know why all of thisis happeneing. it hnk some if it may be from school. we both carry a full load of work in college and he works almost 40 hours a week. hes comign over later so we can talk cause we both want to remain as friends. when he broke up with me we were both crying on eachothers shoulders(and he NEVER cries and was crying alot) he said he as sorry for doing this and left. he said he doesnt know if he wants to get back together. i think he left me to focus more on school
2006-11-09 07:54:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
since he tried to break up with me a few months ago to focus ons chool more since he needs to raise his GPA and now the semester ends next month. i ove him so much and would do anything for him to forgive me. i promised him that i would never tell any type of lies again and he said he would try his best to forgive me but i only told 2 white lies! its not liek i cheated on him or dated around his back.
and no he didnt leave me for another woman
do you think he still loves me? i asked him if he still loves me r not and he said "maybe" what does that mean?
i know he's just stressed with school and everythign right ow and inm trying my best to get over this and ty to get our relationship back together after the semester ends next month.
2006-11-09 07:57:11 · update #1
do you think we'll ever get back together last night he told me he would liek tog et back together and go back to things how they once were and he would liek to trust me again but he cant right now caue he doesnt have the time....
2006-11-09 07:58:12 · update #2
im just so depressed not thought. i havent eaten in days, ive missed school land have missed a test today cause i cant concentrate on anything but us right now... i just want things to go back to how they were. i DONT have any friends to talk to abotu this........ i know i can meet peopel in college but its my second year there and i havetn yet...im really shy to approach people
2006-11-09 07:59:57 · update #3
excuse my typing, im just upset right now....=(
2006-11-09 08:00:28 · update #4
we talked abotu etting married in a few years too.........but things can change int he bink of an eye//i think he just wants to get somethign out of his ife since he's stressed with everythign right now. so he got rid of me for now. but i have a feeling he still loves me and he said "maybe" i dont know what that means....
2006-11-09 08:02:14 · update #5
he's coming over in a couple of hours.....is this a good idea? just so we acn talk abotu things...?
he always told me maybe means yes. so when i asked him is he still loves me he said "maybe"? im not sure what he means.
i just want him to forgive me, ive tried everything already....ive apoplogized more times i can talk. he always brought it up in arguements and it always made m cry and feel like a horrible person....i just feel worthless rith now..
i just want him to forgive me, hear the words "i love you" out of his mouth with a hug and a kiss from him.
2006-11-09 08:56:00 · update #6
Of course he loves you. If you want things to work out, then leave him alone. He's asking you to so respect that. As much as you want to be with him, if you don't leave him alone now, he will think your annoying and not want to get back with you. I know that it hurts, but really if you give him space and time to think and gather himself, he will come back.
First thing you have to do, is stop calling him. I know its tough, but trust me. Stop calling him. He's going to wonder why you haven't and start calling you to hang out with you and find out why you've been so busy. Second thing, STOP CRYING. You want a man to be with you b/c he loves you not because he pitys you. Don't you want a man who wants to be with you for you and not because he feels bad for you? Of course. Third thing, get busy. You have to make sure your are constantly busy. Hang out with the girls. Go live your life for a little bit.
If you have him wondering about you, he'll realize that he made a mistake. You can't go trying to beg him to take you back, when you really didn't do anything. You have to let him see that. He broke up with you, let him be the one that comes chasing you back. Make sure you look extra cute when he comes around or you know you are going to see him, even if you are going to sleep, LOOK YOUR BEST. Last but not least, KINDNESS KILLS. Always look happy and be extra kind.
You will get him back.
2006-11-09 08:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this book, please.
It's Called A Breakup Because It's Broken, by Greg Behrendt.
Read it. Everyone needs to read it.
2006-11-09 08:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by my_son_wants_to_know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should concentrate more on your school than on the break up they are hard but if he loves you and you love him then it will all work out if not move on but until then worry about bettering your future.
2006-11-09 08:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Crissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little bit of time so that he can regain his thoughts... hang out and be friends for now.. something good might happen..
2006-11-09 07:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should focus on your typing as well ;) Breaking up is hard.
2006-11-09 07:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he still loves you, just give it time
2006-11-09 07:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋