why are women always complaining about feeling unappreciated?

Question

why are women always complain about something?

Answer 1

Women can be very sensitive and they are always wanting to please there mate. They are a very needy breed and they need lots of love and affection. If they do not get enough of it they will let you know by telling you. Men are tough in nature and sometimes they do not think of saying thank you or I love you as much as the women would like to hear. But if you can hold up to the women's standard the mate will get lots of rewards in return. What comes around goes around. So kill her with kindness and rock her world and she will rock yours in return....

Answer 2

They aren't. Either you're attracted to complainers or else you're doing something to get the complaining going.

If you knew enough women in general you'd know that all women aren't "always complaining about feeling unappreciated".

I suspect you're attracted to needy women. Any chance your mother is needy, and that's the model you have for what women are supposed to be? People often find someone like the people in their own family. The result is you end up with a little circle of people (your family and the person you go out with or marry) who are all the same and color your view of what one gender of the other "always is".

Answer 3

Just think about a child; when they do something good - we give them praise for their accomplishment. Women do things all of the time and never receive praise or recognition for what their accomplishments - that's why we feel unappreciated.
When a man does good at work - he gets recognized, a pat on the back, a free lunch, a raise or what ever. When a woman does anything (home or work) - we NEVER get recognized for doing a good job - it's almost like we don't exist.

Answer 4

only women that overdo for men will complain about feeling unappreciated - i've met my share of whiny complaining men also, so it's just not women - men are 10x worse when they have something to complain about - women are just more verbal to begin with, so it's a release to them to vent verbally.

Answer 5

If women in your life complain about feeling unappreciated, you can help them. Just say thank you, I appreciate this, or that, as often as you can. It is worth trying for your sake too, because a happy woman makes her man happy, and an appreciated woman, appreciates her man. Good luck!

Answer 6

Lmfao....... pay interest to your self.............your complaining about women people complaining...........honestly, and that i'm being straightforward....those that ***** about feeling unappreciated are in many cases immature and in relationships with adult adult males they attempt to regulate to healthful them.....I agree that is a soreness to hearken to whiners !

Answer 7

start appreciating the women in ur life and u will notice they will stop complaining about how they r unappreciated.

Answer 8

For your first question, maybe it's because we are! And for the second question, if men would pick up the slack in what we are expected to do, we wouldn't complain so much or be so stressed and tensed, now WOULD WE????

Answer 9

Beacuase we're supposed to do everything,but we dont get any credit for it...and because of all of the gender stereotypes that arent true...like a boy saying this to another boy:"you kick like a girl" well,its damn rite that girls kick better than you,and we can kick our buttocks any time.
girls/women are always "the weak ones". There are many women who are stronger than men-physicall and mentally.
there are Canadian women in Afghanistan who are in the army,FIGHTING. In south Asia,when they were giving out awards for the best students,etc, ALL of the awards were won by GIRLS.
but still,do we et any credit???? NO.that is usually why i get mad....SEXISM.

Answer 10

Well....I don't always complain about feeling unappreciated. Only when my husband complains about not having any clean underwear and looks at me like it's my fault, when I spend my week:
Working 40-50 hours at my full-time paid job
Hauling my oldest child to school and spending volunteer hours there.
Providing full-time care for my youngest child who is not in school.
Grocery shopping, running errands, helping with homework (which he doesn't think he should have to help with ever since homework should be done right after school), cooking meals, washing dishes, feeding the animals (dogs, cat and fish) and taking the four-legged ones to the vet, taking the kids to their doctor appointments, buying school supplies, taking care of my g'mom who lives an hour away, making sure the kids have clean clothes to wear to school, meeting with teachers, attending the PTA meetings, cleaning up the trash in the front yard from the bag the dogs tore open (that my husband had left on the front porch), purchasing/wrapping gifts for whatever occasion, entertaining my mother-in-law on her third four-day visit in three months (while her son is out of town!), raking the leaves, sorting through clothes and household items that are too small/no longer used and dropping them off at the donation center, planning/hosting/cooking for an impromptu dinner party/birthday celebration for one of hubby's co-workers, planning the 60th birthday party for my mother-in-law, give the baby a bath, hmmmm - I'm out of steam, but the week isn't over yet so who knows what else is going to happen?

Meanwhile darling husband:
gets himself ready for work in the mornings, including fixing himself breakfast but not washing his dishes
irons his clothes
works 40-45 hours per week outside the home
washes his work clothes (which he doesn't want me to wash as I don't do it correctly) and hangs them up to dry (as drying them even once will ruin them forever)
goes to play racketball once a week
goes to workout at Y twice a week
plays golf once or twice a week spring, summer, fall
plays softball once a week, with practice one other time each week - spring, summer and fall
goes to football game every Friday night
cleans the gutters
mows the grass
and occasionally he: puts the kids to bed, takes them to visit his grandmother, gives the baby a bath, washes a load of dishes, folds clothes - but these are not regular activities

So, when else do I complain? When my husband comments that I am 'wasting' money (on new shoes for the girls) after he forgot to cancel the old cell phone for four months after we had a new one - meaning we paid two phone bills, needlessly wasting $300+
But, we don't talk about that cause I don't want to make him feel bad for a mistake. So why should I be made to feel bad because my kids' feet grow? I spent a lot of years apologizing for crap that wasn't my fault - I'm not doing it anymore. When he points out my 'faults', darn tooting I'm going to complain about being unappreciated - I don't think he has a clue what would happen to this household if I quit my unpaid jobs!