now i m 19 years old i m a girl when i was 15 my master came to rape me fortunately i escaped from him but still now if i thought that incident means i am getting fear .once i watched a rape scene in film i could not tolerate it and i fainted and i myself recovered aftersometime because there is no one in my house at that time how can i overcome this problem i think this incident would affect my future life please give me some advice .i did not tell this incident anyone .
2006-11-09 07:33:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
he is my physical director master . this incident happened when i was studying in school,
2006-11-09 08:00:14 · update #1
what master ? he is a Raven, dustama, kick him out, tell some body to help u to kick him out of your life & forget about it, see your psychiatrist doctor, take zoloft 50 mg. tabs. one every morning. if u need further help, pl. don't hesitate to contact me. god bless u, bhanu, usa.
2006-11-09 13:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by SANAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sympathies.
I am interpreting master as teach, in many Indian cultures and in schools, the world is interchanged.
So for my understanding and the other peoples' understanding he was not only just teacher but, " he was my physical director/ master" that is what you said.
The other thing can be. He was just teacher then but now he is teacher and also a director of Physical department(Physical Eduction Department), and you are in same school still studying there or working there in some capacity.
I suggest you tell your parents or guardians or at least a female teacher that you can trust all about this incident.
You need to get this off your chest, and need to see a therapist.
If you do not think that your parents are the right people to see, then I hope you can find, an aunt who may be sympathetic to your suffering, you do need to talk it out, hope fully in your own Indian Language so you can express your self clearly and and completely. Talking will remove some burden. It will be difficult to prove it so you cannot go to the police, or school authority, but still you can tell them that you wish for them to just keep a record of what you have to say. After all it is your word against his.
I also hope that in a year or so you will complete your eduction and you will not have to face this teacher/director.
2006-11-09 08:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should report this even now. Better late than never!
God knows how many times he has succeeded before the attempt on you and after???!!!
Don't be afraid! The world is with you on this!
The scum needs to be taught that he is responsible for his actions.
Most of all, when you do report this and tell someone, you will find that you will be stronger immediately. The feeling of insecurity that might hv crept in at that MOMENT has been filling inside you and your fear factor is now like a baloon. It is easy to tell someone. Pls Pls try!
By reporting , you will help ensure that it is made very difficult for him to Attack some one else in future.
YOU CAN SAVE SOMEONE.!!!!
DON'T BE AFRAID. CHEER UP AND ENJOY LIFE.
2006-11-09 13:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by jnana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling us probably helps, but it sound like you are suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder, and you need some help processing the fear and hate you still arry from that experience. A school counselor at your college or anywhere could help you. Talking about it will help, and bringing charges against this person would also help you get resolution and able to move on. Good luck, Goddess Bless.
2006-11-09 07:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by orphanannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't your religious leader be told of this? I understand that in some cultures the woman would be guilty of leading the man on and would be punished or killed for this. Can you not get away from him? Why do you have a master?
2006-11-09 07:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Donald W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. Now another one... I am so sorry that happened to you. At least you got away.. I was not so lucky.... It is hard. Film clips like that still get to me too. I recommend talking to someone you can trust. Get it out! Talking to my friends, to someone who has gone through it too, really helped me...
It's ok to feel bad about it, to feel fear. But you just have to take control. Say that it will not govern you... You are stronger than that. Remember to take deep breaths. Know that your life is yours and you can shape it. If you ever need some one to talk to... e mail me... T.T
Ciao
2006-11-09 08:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "master"?
You should not be being raped by anyone.
If you are trying to have a normal sex life, then try to calm your self by thinking that you are gong to have sex because you want to, not because some one is forcing you. I hope everything is o.k. for you. If you need any kind of help, please tell some one. go to a church or police station.
If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. If you need some one to talk to please e-mail me.
2006-11-09 07:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are damaged beyond repair and must seek help with people who have similar experiences to know it wasn't your fault and get help dealing with you feelings.
2006-11-09 08:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by master? Master like s&m master?
2006-11-09 07:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-03 11:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by elidia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋