2006-11-09 07:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by nicole a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So sorry to here about that. I do truly feel for you.
First of all, you must not think it is your fault because it is not.
Your parents both made the decision. But you must be strong and keep the lines of communication open between the both of them.
If they live in different states you should visit as much as you can.
If you have any brothers or sisters you should definitely keep in touch because you all will need each other at this present time.
Be strong and always be positive. This will make the process a lot easier to deal with.
God Bless you!
2006-11-09 07:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by ye 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Accept it. If you need support in dealing with the issues ask your mom or dad , ( or both ) to help you. There are plenty of other kids out there who are going through or have gone through what you're experiencing. I hope you have a good enough relationship with your parents that you can talk to them. They should be reassuring you that you are still, and will always be loved by the both of them. And that their divorce is not in any way , shape, or form your fault. As you get older you'll realize this divorce is hard on the both of them also. The best first step you can take is to realize that things will never be the same but they can be better. Accept this new reality and talk about your feelings. And it's ok to cry.....
2006-11-09 07:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah....So unfortunate for you. First thing you want to do is learn to accept and live with this. A divorce not only effect the two people involved in it. It effect the children more so than the adults. Sometimes the child or adolescent tend to feel that it is their fault. If you think that you can somehow bring them back together well, that's fine. In most cases however that does not happen. What you need to try and do, my opinion, is get some information about broken family's. Get active in some counseling groups for people like your self who are striving to cope with the same stresses that you are. Lastly, its not your fault and your parents love you regardless of their mishaps. So, in light of that just appreciate your parents for who they are and not what they have done to each other. Most of these answers her are cold and that is because most of these people are still bitter and have emotional veils that they hide behind. You did the right thing and most people in your case would have never come forward. Good luck to you and God Bless you and your parents.
2006-11-09 07:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by skawp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i was happy when mine did . There was no more fitghing no more tears from mum and mum and dad evn got on better after it . It is so hard at frist though andu seem to blam yourself but no way is it u it just your parntes maybe had no of been ecatly right. KEEP up your smile and battle through good luk xx
2006-11-09 07:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by hunniswirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what---and do about what----almost everyones parents are divorced--join the club
2006-11-09 07:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by sunbun 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive and don't take sides...just love them both. This is not your problem, it's theirs. They both love you and you in return should love them back.
2006-11-09 08:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love them both,and do not let them talk about each outher,tell the you do not want to hear it,
2006-11-09 07:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't blame yourself. you are not to blame. remember your parents still love you. be there for both your parents.
2006-11-09 07:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Deal with it... It has happened... And it is their business... Decide (if you are only a child) who you will live with...
2006-11-09 07:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what do you want to do
2006-11-09 07:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋