if ur friend makes u choose between he/she and ur other close friend, does that really make her a true friend????
2006-11-09 07:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunetly not. True friends dont make us choose between them and another. The ones that do are simply selfish and nasty.
When you become friends and they are a fun to be around and hang out with you should first look at their circle. If they have lots of friends it is a good sign, But if they have none or only 1 or 2 you really should ask your self why. ppl have friends in different ways too. Social friends are casual ones, not emotional connected, But Truefriends you have the emotional connenction to them. I think this girl has an emotional attatchment to u that is not natural. Not wanting u to be friends with other ppl is a sign that you should be friends with her anyway.
2006-11-09 07:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by holly_grimoire_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the situation. Sometimes you cannot make ammends with certain people (as in your two friends may not have it in them to be civil with each other).
It sound as if you are still pretty young so chances are she'll get over it and probably soon.
In the meantime, be friends with both of them, but be sure to go out of your way to not have them encounter each other. There is no need to cause drama where it is not needed.
If she decideds not to be your friend thats her loss, not yours. She is the one who left the friendship, not you.
2006-11-09 15:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by asoobee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true friends would never make you choose between someone else. they will accept whom is your friend and respect you for that. Just because she doesnt like this other girl, doesnt mean she has to make you choose. You need to sit down and talk to her and explain that if she is a real friend she wouldnt make you choose.
2006-11-09 15:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who truly cares about you wouldn't ask you to chose. That is called emotional manipulation. When she asks you that again, ask her if she's sure she wants you to chose because you sure are going to miss her.
2006-11-09 15:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-09 15:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Eric E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i guess not and plus it depends on the situation....
2006-11-09 15:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by MistyBlu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋