my best friends and i are part of a gruop called the carvers and today the nurse and theripist person at our school pulled my friend aside AND LOOKED AT HER WRISTS AND she carves like we like to called it and so they called her dad . wat should i do wat if her dad thinks that i encorage her to do that i will lose my best friend.
2006-11-09 07:12:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes you do need serious help! How can you slip your wrists????
We have all got problems in this life,....cutting ourselves dpesnt help us at ALL!!!!!
First thing you should do is not go near you dads friend for while and if he asks you anything just say that you didnt encourage her to do it ( which I guess is the truth..RIGHT?????)
Second you and your friend should stop 'CARVING' yourselves!!
If you have a prblem talk to your parents but if you're not the 'italktomyparents' type of person then talk to your friend!! (seeing as you both have a special friend connection ..COZ YOU CUT YOURSELVES TOGETHER!!!!!!). You could tell your friend your problems and she could tell you hers...be open and make sure the conversation between you two STAY between you two!.
Oh and one last thing.........I am a human being so I dont have the power to change people.........(if I could I would change soooooo many! ) so I cant change you if cutting yourself helps you live then do it...BUT NO TO DEEP!! AND NOT TO MUCH!!
I have to confess I have also cut myself varios times! CALL ME EMO IF YOU WANT!! xDD
2006-11-09 07:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by JennyfferBCN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The carvers???? Seriously, you and your friends should NOT being doing this. If you guys were real friends, you wouldn't let your "real" friends do it to themselves. Pretty immature if you ask me. And her dad is right to let her not hang out with you again. This is dangerous. And yes, you did encourage it because you didn't STOP her from doing it. You girls need to seek help for this. You're going to end up ruining your life, the others around you, and at the same time, you're letting your "friends" do the same.
2006-11-09 15:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need help!! That is extremely unhealthy both physically and mentally. As for losing your best friend, it sounds like you guys don't exactly have a very healthy relationship if you're encouraging each other to do this, which you are just by being in this silly, harmful group.
I repeat, GET HELP!
2006-11-09 15:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by koral2800 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you all need SERIOUS HELP! It's especially alarming that a cliqué of self-mutilators/borderlines would be in a group egging each other on to hurt themselves; you're not supporting each other by allowing the "carving" to continue. It's so obvious that you all encourage each other to do this. Her father has every right to prevent his daughter from associating with self-destructive/harming people! That is HIS RIGHT to do so for fear of his daughters health and safety.
You ALL need help...and prayer.
2006-11-09 15:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should of never started the group in the first place! Its not good for your body.......
well Im sry but I dont know if her dad will think that or not.
2006-11-09 15:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them the truth. you can't go wrong with that. that's what i would do.
2006-11-09 15:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by BLA_HA_HEHE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the truth....
2006-11-09 15:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by MistyBlu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋