Ok well i have these two best friends and the both hate eachother, they are trying to make me choose between one or the other and it sucks.Should I confront them And tell them how I feel about the situation??They started hating each about 6 months ago because they are both spreading tons of rumors about eachother and im not sure which ones are true or not. And they are really dramatic.Can you please give me some advice?
2006-11-09 06:39:36 · 9 answers · asked by Kylieeeeeeee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell them how u feel about it they need to grow up
2006-11-09 06:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by vickey417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends don't ask their friends to make a choice. Well, okay maybe when their in elementary school. It is immature and unfair to ask you to choose between them. I would tell them both that you are and will remain friends with the other and if they don't like it then they can go on their own way. Sounds like your friends need to do some growing up or you need to find friends that are on the same level of maturity that you are.
2006-11-09 06:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to both of them let them know that whatever is going on between them is not part of you, let them know that you are not going to choose between your two best friends because true friend never make you choose they accept things as they are. Another thing is you need to ask both of them what really made them start hating eachtoerh let them know that you would really like if they could work things out and you alll become great friends. If that doesnt work and they still are fighting let them know you are not choosing and if they continue to make you choose, tell them you are going to find new friends that dont judge you. maybe that will make them open there eyes.
2006-11-09 07:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know i had to same problem and even today. i got to best friends that seem to fight over my time its crazy. if you feel you need to step in and say something then do it. But nothing you say will change the way they feel about eachother, it might calm things down. but to this day my two friends want nothing to do with each other and i am ok with that. i just hang out with them at seperate times.
You need to take care of you and your problem, what ever is going on between then don't let if affect the friendship of you and them seperate
2006-11-09 06:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by dido45dido 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i think it's really immature of them to try to make u choose. first of all, they can't be good friends if thy're spreading rumors about each other, and second, tell them how you feel about the whole situation.
2006-11-09 06:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun that is none of your buisness is they hate each other then thas in them. their entitled to not like each other. just let them know youre not tryna get stuck in the middle of this. and that it makes u unconfterable.
2006-11-09 06:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel them to stop being A**HOLES and tell to be really cool because both of you guys are my best friends and i dont want you guys to be like that i want you to be cool with each other beause i cool with you guys
2006-11-09 06:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you are able to no longer get them to speak it out, stand the hell out of ways and enable them to overcome the crap out of eachother. in the event that they are stubborn a nd problematic headed, they gained't hear to you in any respect. enable them to make fools out of themselves.
2016-10-03 11:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of the picture for a while they will become friends,then you might be the odd man out...
2006-11-09 06:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋