2006-11-09 06:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your mom that you know about what she is doing and it's affecting you.
2006-11-09 06:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is not an issue for you to be involved in. Unless you caught her in the act your facts may also be wrong.
Your only course of action is to talk to your mother. This is not what she taught you was acceptable and it is not behavior which you now find acceptable.
Let her clean up her own mess.
You really do not know what is going on between your parents. You may think you do but you cannot at the adult level.
TALK TO YOUR MOTHER. DO NOT TELL DAD.
2006-11-09 06:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the person who said tell your mom you know, but never ever tell your dad. It will only hurt him and ruin your family. What is done is done, your mom can't change it, but she can try to make things better at home. good luck
2006-11-09 06:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her with solid evidence. If she cant satisfy your interest go to dad. In either case be sure they know you do not like what they are doing. Ask them to seek counseling.
2006-11-09 06:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everybody says you should do something... but i couldnt disagree more.... it may affect you and your family, but their is no resolution to this problem. I would put that info in the back of my head and forget about it... this is a terrible situation but there is NO right way of handling this.
If you do decide to confront either of your parents do so with great tact and sympathy.
2006-11-09 06:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by SS_99_ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mind your own business. This is a husband and wife issue, not a mom and dad issue.
2006-11-09 06:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your are a kid and should not get involved in grown ups business. He will soon find out on his own and your whole household will be broken up!
2006-11-09 07:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to mom, but don't tell dad, it would just hurt him too much, and maybe he would divorce her, and u would be in the middle of it.
2006-11-09 13:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell dad. that's what i did. no one deserves to be made ito a fool like that. if it were you, wouldn't you want to know? or confront your mother. i confronted my mother first and when she said it was non of my business and not to tell my dad, i went and told him right away. i hate keeping secrets between my parents and it's their job to show you that these things are wrong. your mother is hurting you, your dad and herself....basically the entire union of you family. i say confront her first if there is no resolution....tell dad. he has the right to know.
2006-11-09 06:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by AnneeMoon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give her the opportunity to come clean. Tell her that you know and if she doesn't tell him, you will. Stick to it. She might be upset with you innitially, but when it's all said and done, she'll understand and always love you. It sucks that she put you in that situation..
2006-11-09 06:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by rachael 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋