my friend is kinda a slut so i confronted her about it she asked me what can she do to change i told her she need to have self respect. she asked how to gain self respected and i don't know what to tell her. what should i tell her. if you don't have something positive to say don't say nothing...
2006-11-09 06:28:54 · 7 answers · asked by priceness45 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your friend needs to learn how to care about herself; once she accomplishes that, the rest will follow. Good luck!
2006-11-09 06:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's under the age of 17-18, your friend should get a couple of books that will help her to understand self-respect.
"The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Teens" by Sean Covey.
"Life Strategies for Teens" by Jay McGraw.
"Teen Esteem: A Self-Direction Manual for Young Adults" by Pat Palmer.
You'll both learn a lot and be able to create the future of your dreams.
2006-11-09 06:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To gain self respect, you first have to have respect for yourself. If you don't have respect for within, then how can you be anyones friend. Tell her she needs to become her own friend, and love herself to not disrespect herself in any way. Jokes are jokes but never play yourself as one, cause when you do, you will always be. Don't continue to live her life, not knowing herself.
2006-11-09 06:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she needs to talk to a therapist to find out why she is acting out to others. Maybe to make herself feel better, because she has no self esteem. Maybe make sure she is always around people who are positive and tell her she needs to visit the nice side of life instead of staying in the dark side all the time. Id leave it up to the professionals so they can really get down and dirty with her TRUE feelings!
2006-11-09 06:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by crystald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some girls like to do that and no matter what i dont think they will change unless they go to a therapist and if they start to change their way of beign. its good ur helping her keep it up. Props for that
2006-11-09 06:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by rubikisses muuah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her selfrespect is keeping her body clean, clothes clean and her legs kept together.
2006-11-09 06:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enroll her in a martial arts class, JUST HER, NOT YOU. If you do it together, she might just become your fighting dummy.
2006-11-09 06:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋