what if the boy you go out with does drugs what do you do???
2006-11-09 06:11:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just say NO, dump that chump, and find a better guy that doesn't do drugs.
2006-11-09 06:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am in the same sitution. I married a drug addict and then turned into a drug addict myself. The best answer i can give you is if you truely love, let him know how you feel and that you are worried about him. Ask him to go get help. Mention NA meetings or even a drug counsler, or even a detox program. From personal experiance the addict will only quit drugs if they really want to. You can't make them. Drugs controls you, you don't control the drug. Don't use the phrase" if you love me you will quit" nine times out of ten, they have a passion for the drug and that is what they will chose. I have been 100 days clean and i continue to seek counsling and NA meetings, it really helps.
2006-11-09 06:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by thumperprice26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you seem young, if you are then you need to stop seeing this boy and let an adult know that he's doing drugs because it could either harm him or kill him. If you are an adult how long has he been doing drugs? and did you know about it before you got with him? If you answer you don't know to the first question and no to the other one then you need to speak to him about it, find out how long his been doing drugs and why did he start. Let him know that it could seriously hurt him and he needs help. Try to help him and if he doesn't want your help then tell him that you can not stand by and watch him kill him self. Good luck.
2006-11-09 06:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by BASHFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first. Let him know how you feel about the situation. Tell him you're not trying to change who he is, but you're trying to help him make himself better than he is acting. Tell him he has potential to be something in life and that this is not helping him achieve that. Look for ways to help him, such as rehab, therapy, etc. Try to associate(together) with groups of people who are NOT into that kind of mess(drugs, I mean), show him there is a better way of life. Be loving to him. Even if you aren't serious with this guy, you must have some sort of affection for him. Show him you care, and be there for him. If he refuses to try to stop, you don't need to be bound to someone with that kind of lifestyle. It could come back on you. Provide him with information on how to get help, tell him to call you if he decides to act right, and end the romantic relationship. I'm not saying abandon him, but make sure you put a lot of distance between him and yourself if he isn't going to try to stop. I've seen what drugs can do to people who use them and to people who love the users. It can really damage lives. I hope the best for you.
2006-11-09 06:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of drugs his on. If they are easier drugs, try to help him in any way possible. If can't get of him dump him. And you should dump him definitely if his doing more dangerous drugs. I tried grass three or four times and there is nothing special about it. I did it those four times and stopped. So try to help him.
2006-11-09 06:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Alexei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and see if there was a way in which i could help him, maybe help him kick the habit/addiction. Talk to him and maybe try and find out why he does it, maybe you'll learn something about him that you didnt know before. But don't ever judge, and if there isn't anything you could do about it, then ask yourself if you're comfortable in the situation. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 06:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, if he even cared about his own life he wouldn't do them. Do you want to visit him in jail and if you are caught with him and he has drugs on him you could go to jail too. its not worth it. you could tell him its either the drugs or me, but then you still wouldn't know if he was doing them behind your back. My experience in life is you cant trust users they are loser's, he can get help and maybe you are the one to help with that, but he has to want it. good luck i really wish you the best.
2006-11-09 06:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on alot. It sounds like your just in high school and if this is the case then i would somehow cause an intervention and make sure he gets help.
Good Luck
2006-11-09 06:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get him to stop and help him out, and if that doesn't work then dump him.
2006-11-09 06:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by Cecilia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a hot potatoe, honey, before you get yourself involuntarily mixed in it too!!!
2006-11-09 06:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋