Why would someone be proud that they're gay?

Question

Read in the paper today that firemen got sanctioned beucase they never atteneded a gay pride march. Some reasons included religious grounds but hey, that's they're opinion and as long as they do not enforece it on me that's cool.

I'm gay and I'm with the firemen; why the hell are they so "proud"? What do they do; sleep with men? Well congratulations... so do a hell of a lot of women. You don't here straight people going on "pride" marches.

I could imagine the scene now; the firemen being groped by pathetic people who have nothing in their life except being "proud" they're gay.

I'm not saying that they're isn't discrimination against gay people because they're is. However, dressing up as a nun and prancing around the street isn't the answer... what do you think?

Answer 1

The same reason why someone is proud to be black, or proud to be a woman, or proud of anything. I personally think that pride usually leads to arrogance, which is why many people who say their so proud, usually are. I'm black by the way. I'm happy to be alive, but I don't wear a proud sign on my head.

It's understandable to overcome being discriminated against by learning to be proud about yourself, but some people over do it, and become arrogant and selfish some end up discriminating those who discriminated against them, which is equally wrong.

Answer 2

I think the term "Gay Pride" is unfortunate, since most of what that now is, is simply a celebration of life, presented in a humourous, tongue-in-cheek way.

Were you to live in Poland, then "Gay Pride" is a matter of life and death, quite literally, as the authorities try to stamp out homosexuality in whatever way they can, and turn a blind eye to nationalist skinheads who attack gay people and try to disrupt peaceful protest marches. Meanwhile, the catholic church does nothing except sit on its hands and remain silent about the abuse of human rights.

As for the firemen, they have a contract which requires that they undertake educational and public awareness work, and gay people (whether in a Gay Pride March or not), are tax-paying members of the public, and must not be discriminated against.

The firemen who refused, on whatever grounds, to undertake this important work, deserved entirely what they got....disciplinary action.

Answer 3

I am married with kids but I do have some friends and Family who happen to be gay. And even though I cant get my head around their lifestyle, that doesnt mean that they are "only" gay. I guess if you were gay and you lived in a society that oppresses you, "dressing up like nun and prancing' might be their way of giving people who feel threatened by them or persecute them through actions or words a big middle finger. I suppose they are proud of themselves. Maybe by personal achievments, or things done. Sexuality is such a small part of "who" or "what" we are anyway. Live and let live. Hope this made ya think a bit clearer.

Answer 4

I am proud that I am gay in so much that I am comfortable with who I am and I feel no need to either justify myself or hide myself. That kind of pride is, in my opinion, healthy. Now what you're talking about is not so much pride but "pride" as in a celebration and/or parade/party. On that issue I do confess to being somewhat uncomfortable in so much as the display of overt sexuality can be, I repeat 'can be', off-putting to not only straights but gays as well. The reality is, pride in oneself does not require a massive display or an in your face act, that said, pride celebrations are more party than politics these days and as such, I see them merely as a festival of sorts. As for participation, it should be voluntary, no one should be forced to attend something they don't want, on whatever grounds they choose. Live and let live.

Just in credible also has some fine points.

Answer 5

I have a lot of homosexual friends who would actually agree with you on the "gay pride" thing. I've heard them say the same thing. Yah, they're gay. So what? Why march for pride? Believe it or not, many homosexuals receive a great deal of pressure to march proudly and shout it to the world that they're gay. Many are not at all ashamed, but they don't feel the need to be so public in such a private matter. I am not gay, however, so I am only voicing the opinion given to me by my homosexual friends. One thing in your statement bothered me though. The "groping" comment. Just because they're gay doesn't mean they're sexual predators or sexually depraved individuals who cannot control their own sexual impulses. That's a little unfair and a very common stereotype. To actually answer your question though, the homosexuals who DO march in gay pride do so because of the extreme prejudice, hate and animosity they face on a daily basis. It's their way of saying "I deserve to be happy. I'm proud of who I am even if you don't agree with my sexuality. I'm still worthy of love and respect. I am full of courage. I am a person."
And that, my friend, is why someone would be proud that they are gay.

Answer 6

I do somewhat agree with you. I don't understand the "gay pride" thing either. Some people say because they are proud that they've made a decision. Well heck, I make decisions everyday and I don't go running around having marches because of it. Just because you make a choice or decision, doesn't mean it is the right decision. As far as discrimination...discrimination from what? Paying your taxes doesn't give you the right to do whatever you want...ask anyone in jail.

Answer 7

A Pride Parade my have the wrong name. It's really not about being proud but about being recognized. I don't agree entirely with the way we go about making this point so, as a lesbian, I choose not to include myself in Pride days, instead, I volunteer my time with a couple of organizations in my city that promote awareness and possible solutions of the issues of today's LGBT population. I'm no more proud of being a lesbian than I am of having brown eyes- I had no choice but am accepting and happy with both.

Answer 8

I don't give a bollocks about anyone's colour,creed or sexuality,but i have to be honest,i feel uncomfortable with the gay parade thing.You have gays complaining about prejudice & not being accepted by society,then they go on parades half naked & posing suggestively,(or obscenely,if you like).Why would they need to do that?I think it would be better for them just to go about the normal daily routine the same as anyone else,just blend in,what they do in the bedroom is no-one elses' business.

Answer 9

I am not Gay but I am bisexual and I am proud of it! Be proud that you are what you are and that you admit your sexuality. Don't hide it either by being in the closet, at some point someone will find out and out you so beat them to it out yourself!

Like I say I am bisexual and PROUD TO BE!

Answer 10

You make a good point, and I'm with you on that.

I don't think it's Gay Pride as much as it is a Gay Fight. To prove that there are people who've made choices and are fighting for rights.

I am hetero, and have gay friends, but I can tell you that the reason they're my friends is because they are normal people. Normally going through the trials and tribulations of life and love. They don't smooch, grope, debate or anything like that. Neither do my hetero friends. We're just normal.

If you were living nearby, we'd probably be friends because you sound NORMAL!

I agree with you.

Answer 11

I completely agree...I went to a couple when I first came out but it honestly was the biggest waste of time I could possibly think of. A bunch of gay people prancing around...some political figure says about 3 mins of how he or she came out and how he's so proud of it. We will never be considered equals until we stop making such a big deal out of the fact that we're gay. Stop putting stickers on your cars and stop waving flags...wtf? we need a flag for what? yay look at me i have sex with men...get a life.