My baby daddy and I never really went out it was a one time thing, but he tells me he loves me and the baby, but I found out that he was having sex with another girl, and thats fine. It's the fact that I asked him about it and he lied over & over again, and that same day he told me he loved me. Now he says it was a mistake and he wants me back. What do you think I should do? thanks
2006-11-09 05:47:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Holy crap. You are still in the process of "breaking up". Finish it.
2006-11-09 05:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 23:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to predict someone's future behavior is to look at their past behavior. Your baby's daddy has sex with someone else while he's in a relationship with you, he tells lies over and over again. What does this tell you about what his behavior is going to be like like in the future? Knowing that, is this someone you want to have in your life?
2006-11-09 05:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the reasons why you are still with him.. and than decide if he is worth it..if you are really sure that he loves you will you go back to him? i mean could love be the only reason for a relationship to go on.. are there other reasons? are you financially dependent to him? do you think you can not have any better relationship? you will find the right answer for your self if you ask the right questions i am sure.. ps: cheating is not a "just one time" behaviour..
2006-11-09 05:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by rseny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh what a bevy of confusion! I say don't go back to him. He's already shown you who he is -- a liar, a cheater, and a fraud. Cut him loose. Raise this baby to be a better person than that and find the baby a better example of what a father is all about.
2006-11-09 05:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that yall should sit down face to face and talk about it and if you feel that he is not going to do it again then you take him back because the best thing would be for yall to be together for the sake of the baby.
2006-11-09 05:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~aLeShA mArIhA~*~ Love Ya!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, obviously he is a black dude. Well, dont do it becuz he knows that if you take him back, he will be able to do anything he wants and lie to your face until you catch him in the lie. He sounds like trash. Just go find a good man, you deserve better girl
2006-11-09 05:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the father of your baby you will have interactions for the rest of your lives. Go get some counsilng TOGETHER. If he won't do this I seroiusly question his sincerity. If he won't then you should anyway for your own sanity. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 05:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Scott L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure we will all tell u not to come back to him and i am sure that u will be in his arms as soon as u can. when we are attached to someone we forgive not because we believe in him but because we are weak and we need to believe in his love and care. wish u luck whatever u choose to do..
2006-11-09 05:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by angelina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way there is better out there.
2006-11-09 06:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by acidpoohbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋