What I mean by it is this. If a man who grew up in the west coast and a woman who grew up in the east coast marry, where do they usually end up living? Most of the time, is it not the man following the woman, meaning that the man ends up living in his wife's hometown or near his wife's relatives?
2006-11-09 05:38:15 · 21 answers · asked by Enterrador 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why not meet in the middle and live?
2006-11-09 05:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It should be a unanimous decision. One that was carefully discussed and thought out by both parties, so depending on who is more financially stable and the living conditions of both locations. In this scenario, location is the most important factor because u wouldn't wanna be living in an unhealthy area or a violent one either. So it really doesn't matter whether or not it's the husband that ends up living in the wifes location as long as they are happy and comfortable with their decision.
2006-11-09 05:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not always the case. Now, because of the ability to travel, couples live anywhere that a career will take them and as far as a husband following a wife, not always true. The wife can follow a husband. I believe that it is all up to the couple on what they do and where they live.
2006-11-09 05:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by wallcritter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its a big disicion on a husband and a wife to decide where "they" want to move it shouldnt be that a husband picks the spot and the wife follows or the other way around where the wife picks a spot and the husband follows. unless called to a job or something. But its all about where both would like to be at.
2006-11-09 06:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree that, for the most part, the man ORIGINALLY follows the woman's family. Once the husband is professionally established, if his job requires relocation, then the wife follows.
2006-11-09 05:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by puresatin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a undeniable volume of boredom/disinterest can arise on the two, a husband or spouse's area while it includes intercourse. existence gets interior the way; stuff happens. If the couple is clever? They reserve time for one yet another ("date" nighttime(s). They circulate away now and lower back to be at the same time and do issues at the same time from common environment the place in maximum situations? lots could properly be restimulated in regard to their activity sexually in a single yet another. there is not any "ordinary" even nonetheless while it includes couples...each and every is distinctive and handles this factor of their courting in yet another way. i be conscious of a few will say "dishonest" is a capability to get previous this, yet think of lower back...it is not what marriage is approximately, neither is it appropriate in any admire. those people who say this? -hardly ever evaluate marriage a worth organization interior the 1st place (-nor do they very own an oz. of integrity i could undertaking to assert...) or they could by no capability propose this way of ridiculous violation of a pair's marital vows to one yet another... i think of those persons who stay in love for the time of our marriage? -have not got those themes interior the mattress room even remotely to the degree that those packed with self-doubt do, or who're in simple terms, shallow persons. Grace
2016-12-17 07:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez, it would be pretty hard to meet living on different coasts!
from my personal experience, it has been the opposite. that is, the women moving for the man. I don't know what the average is... or even if there would be a way to find out.
2006-11-09 05:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy dog lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is from the west coast, I'm from the south, I am living on the west coast no where close to my relatives....but i wish your philosophy was true*SIGH*
2006-11-09 06:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what decisions the couple makes TOGETHER.
In part, one consideration may be who has their career in full gear....Which one is agreeable to move. How will a move benefit BOTH. Neither family is necessarily an issue. It's a COUPLE who will be opening a new life committed to EACH OTHER.
So you see, there are circumstances that both need to consider
AND agree on.........BEFORE any move is determined.
2006-11-09 05:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. A lot of the time the woman gives up more than the man.
2006-11-09 05:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily... Most people I meet are all from somewhere else. Usually it's whatever makes more sense when you take all the factors into account (jobs, family, property, finances, location etc).
2006-11-09 05:42:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋