Im wondering how common is it for stay at home housewives to have affairs during the day while theyre husband is at work? Is this something that happesn alot? Have you cheated whiel you hubby was at work? Do you know any women that play during the day while their husband is working.
My wife is a saty at home housewive and im wondering if this is somethign I should be concerned about. Not sure what she does all day, we have a maid so she doesnt have to do housewoerk.
2006-11-09 05:37:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WE have no kids either for her to take care of.
2006-11-09 05:40:07 · update #1
the only kind of play that I do is on the computer, but I'm sure that alot of women do
2006-11-09 05:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the main issue is money! Unless you are wealthy, there always has to be a compromise. What is more important? Plays and assemblys or nice holidays to disneyland? (for example) That is what the toss up is between normally - lots of free time, or quality of free time. Then there is also what you will do in your free time? All of the things you want to attend that you miss only really take up a couple of hours per week and they are when you child is at home. What will you do when she is at school 9 until 4? You only have one child, so it's not as if she is going to create that much mess. Housework is more about organisation and cleaning up as you go along - once you get organised and the house is clean all the time, then what? What are you going to do all day? I have been a housewife for about a year, due to my husband going back to study and i normally work for him, and i am BORED! I suggest that you either get a new job with more flexible hours or that you start having more children so you have a real reason to stay home. Don't depend on benefits because they won't be available much longer.
2016-05-22 00:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually women have more opportunity to meet other men when they are part of the work force. Personally speaking, I resigned from my job about a year ago. My house doesn't feel quite right until my husband walks through the door at the end of the day. Even if we aren't in the same room, just having him home makes everything feel right. No matter how busy I am or what else is going on, I miss not being near him. I'd suggest you talk to your wife about worrying that she may become bored or lonely. Talk about how important it is for BOTH of you to turn to each other when feeling like there's a problem - and not turning outside of the relationship.
2006-11-09 06:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by zenobia2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it IS common but if you two have an awesome sex life- or atleast u make her orgasm then don't worry. I personally am not a stay at home mom yet but my husband does think the same thing about ladies who get 2 stay home alot. She probably doesn't go around cheating on you. Give her what she needs in the bedroom and you 2 will b alright. Plus -try not to be away from home ALOT.
2006-11-09 06:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tanyah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wife has a good man. There are a lot of women out here in this world that wish they had a man like you or a husband even. So she would be a dummy if she is doing this. I have neither, I have a daughter father that does nothing for me or her all her cares about is his self, but I still pray everday that he will change and one day we can become a family. So she is truly bless to have someone like you. I like to hear things like that good luck I hope and I pray that everything will be well with you two.
2006-11-09 06:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an ideal situation for cheating, but i dont think that it is said that most housewives in her position have cheated. Is the sex frequent and good between you? then dont worry. If not much sex? worry a little, but remember most people are at work. I think that the amount of working cheaters and stay at home cheaters is probably about the same.
2006-11-09 07:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a stay at home mom and have never cheated. I also have kids but there in school all day. I think the ones that cheat are the ones that aren't happy in there relationship regardless if there at home or not
2006-11-09 05:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a house wife but I also work out of the house in my home office....But to answer your question, no I have never cheated or even thought about it. I love my man and wouldn't do something like that to destroy our lives together.
2006-11-09 06:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i for one don't play i have a four month old daughter and a puppy to take care of plus i am studying for my vet assistant degree. exactly why does your wife stay at home she should go out and get a job
2006-11-09 05:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a stay at home housewife I don't find anything interesting but my husband. i would not want to play around you don't know what people have they could have a disease or something why would you want to risk your health and his that is scary.
2006-11-09 05:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by cay cay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋