i married her 2 years ago and ever since shes wrecked 4 cars and calls her ex at 3 am and says she doesnt remember. she was put in a psych hospital after she busted into these total strangers house and told them to f33king get out and the police came and she told me to beat the uniformend police up because they were fake and didn't have real guns. two days after she gets out of hospital she gets arrested for calling her ex and threatening him. then she gets in her car at three in the morning and spins her tires until she becomes stuck in the mud she then comes to bed and then the next morning she asks me why did i let her do these things i know i married her for sickness and health but i think i should divorce her because she doesn't want to help herself by not keeping her appointments and taking her meds what do you guys think?
2006-11-09 05:31:26 · 27 answers · asked by raymond r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is obviously still hung up on her Ex...Say a good bye without remorse & breathe free!
2006-11-09 05:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There was an episode of Law n Order SVU just like this last night! I think you should have her locked up in a psych facility. I don't know where you are but in some states the husband has that right. Anyway, do you have any children? Did you know this about her before you were married? I say cut your losses and get out before she hurts you or gets you killed. I take my vows very seriously but i think if you have tried everything then you need to look out for you. But make sure you have tried everything first.
2006-11-09 13:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that her behavior is becoming increasingly chaotic for a reason. I know that I wouldn't be calling my ex if my husband was there for me. She needs help and if you don't know how to get it, then find out!! Why aren't you going to her appointments with her? It is extremely important for you to know how to handle her episodes. I think that leaving her would be selfish and cowardly!! She had this illness when you married her (I know that for a fact: because symptoms like that don't drop out of the sky, she was either born with this illness or it happened at a very young age). If you weren't up for the challenge then you shouldn't have made such a big commitment. She needs you, don't let her down.
2006-11-09 14:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by biff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know she was a nutjob before you married her? If not, how did you miss it? You should have thought twice before you married her in the first place, cuz now that she's full-blown crazy you're gonna look like an *sshole for divorcing her, and she's prolly gonna start calling YOU at 3 am. Sorry about your luck buddy.
2006-11-09 13:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by marcia_mahoya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her into a psych hospital and leave her there. She needs more help. Don't worry about hurting her with a divorce. She's hurting herself with her own actions. Sometimes you have to cut your losses and run. Good luck.
2006-11-09 13:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by what can i do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has some serious problems she needs to deal with. But the only one that can decide if you should leave is you. Can you stick it out and try to help her deal with her problems? If you decide you need to leave, don't feel guilty, cos you need to do what's best for you especially if she won't seek treatment. But remember if she calls her ex at 3 am, don't you think she'll do the same to you?
2006-11-09 13:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sickness and health.
Was she like this before you married her?
What made her start acting this way?
Heh don't let someone ruin your life man. You can only help so much before she has to want to get help herself.
I'm not gonna say leave her, but you get what I'm saying.
Best of Luck,
Drew Bryant
http://www.howtospotacheatin10days.com
2006-11-09 13:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by drew.bryant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello, I'm so sorry to hear this and i think u need to have her committed to a hospital and get her the help she needs. i know its impossible to help someone if they wont help thyself.u have to think of yourself and your happiness too, do u still love her?if u still love her and want to save your marriage..then u have to take the steps by having her committed she needs help like right now...call and have them come get her... .Does she have Schizophrenic? u cant live like this either, i wish u both the very best and Ill keep u both in my prayers....
2006-11-09 13:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by Starbright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put her in a mental instutution for awhile. It will cost u less of course if you divorce her, so your not responsible.
But if you love her for other reasons and knew of her mental illness best stay you knew about it.
2006-11-09 13:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to put her in the hospital so she can get treatment for her illness. You married her so I wouldn't dump her because she's sick.
2006-11-09 13:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋