Now I want a quick and simple remedy. Im 34 years old and till around 2 years back was having normal erections every now and then. But in the last two years I dont get morning erections. Also I dont get turned on by women in the last two years..i feel whats so great about a woman anyway?....but Im normal and not homo etc.Doctor says Im normal.
Now I plan t get married next month but am afraid.....what if I dont get erection....
Can someone suggest a quick test I can do myself to check if I am capable of having sex?
2006-11-09 04:58:29 · 19 answers · asked by dvkhnn 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Well, you already know that the answer to that is to have a ham shank don't you, but what I don't understand is, you say you don't get turned on by women any more and you feel like what is so great about women, so why on earth are you getting married, and in only 1 months time, you contradict yourself here.
2006-11-09 05:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"but Im normal and not homo "
What the heck are you implying here; that people who are gay are not normal? I take exception to people using the word normal in this type of context as if they are normal while anyone who is different is not normal.
And despite what your doctor says, if you are a straight male and find females do not turn you on and you do not think ther eis something great about them, then just maybe you are not normal in some ways and being homo or not has nothing to do with it.
So in addition to getting a second medical doctor to check things out, I'd suggest some sex therapy (physchological counselling) to find out why you don't get turned on by women.
2006-11-12 08:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The little test you asked just is a simple wa.nk!
The worst thing I read is the lack of nocturnal erections!
Is it possible you get no erection in the dawn even?!
If so, your problem won't be a psychological one but right a worse functional one!
If you have no illness and your heart is ok, just for funny try a Viagra pill. That will be another test!
Anyway, bad or worse, fuctional or not, it's not good having such problem already at 34!
What (sexual) future for you?!
2006-11-09 05:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should see your doctor and run some tests, if you are not a virgin. Some people who have been sexually active at one point can get some type of disease that makes it harder for them to have erections.. I suggest that you bring it up to your fiance, and also i think you should play with your self and if you do not get an erection, talk to your doctor about a pill that is good for you that will not interfere with your life.
2006-11-09 05:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erection point lies netween the two ears rather than between the two legs. Just dont feel like goint to exam hall. Forget about the issue; you regain the vigour and your old self just in 3-4 months; for sure.
2006-11-09 05:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex drive diminishes with age. The absence of 'morning wood' (with apologies to Beavis and Butthead !) is not necessarily indicative of a problem.
There is more to sensory stimulation than just seeing. You'd be surprised at the difference between 'looking at' and 'being with'.
Now this being said, remotely you could have what is known as a 'burned out (testosterone) sensor' which is easily treated by your physician.
2006-11-09 05:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your fiancee and let her in on the problem, it does affect her also. As far as a test....um think back to what you used to do when you where about 15...and do that. It sounds like you may need to see a new doctor, your testosterone levels may be low from the sound of it. Try seeinf someone new. Good luck
2006-11-09 05:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by shygirlxoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let me get this straight. For the past 2 years you don't get turned on by women? And you are planning to marry someone?
Does this poor woman know she doesn't turn you on? Does she know you don't get excited around her? Does she know you don't get erections?
You had better not even think about marriage unless you come clean with the truth to your fiancee. You owe her honesty and integrity in your relationship.
2006-11-09 05:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are just getting older, and thats okay.
If the problem persists, i guess try Viagra.
As Comedien Carlos Mencia said "If a woman doesn't get an orgasm it's our fault. Oh, but when a man can't get an erection we need to see a doctor?"
Also try something new in the bedroom.
2006-11-09 05:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not getting an erection when close to your prospective wife you are in real trouble! Try some heavy petting with her and see if the blood starts pumping. If it doesn't don't get married!
2006-11-09 05:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋