engaged some just B/F - G/F wanting me to have sex with their husband/boyfriend while they watched. Some wanted their spouse to be the "active" one but most wanted to watch and video tape their male mate being placed in the passive postion (totally) So my question, is this a new fade in the straight community or is it just freaky people here in the sun belt state?
2006-11-09 04:42:00 · 10 answers · asked by Captain 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that times are changing and ppl are feeling more free to experiment with their sexuality! Yippee! Lets have some fun!
2006-11-09 04:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not as rare as you would think. Women percieve this as a position of power...watching their mate being "mastered." Some men love to watch their wives get it from someone else....freaky? perhaps, I don't really judge, for if I did, OMG..what would that make me? But, if it turns you on, go for it. If it doesn't, politely decline. No big deal either way. I have done this a number of times, sort of a turn on in a strange way, but not everyday fodder. I will admit I like to take the husband in front of the wife...with verbal abuse, etc....sort of whacky, fun for all IF they are into it. But if he is doing it just for her, it ain't gonna work. Keep yourself somewhat annonymous in all this, never give out your phone number or address! There may come a day when the husband has 2nd thoughts and wants to even the score...be careful and you will be fine. I get edgy if I go to their house....but so far, no problems. That does NOT mean their might not be, but I am a pretty big guy and can take care of myself should I have to. Good luck
2006-11-09 13:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they are just freaky in the sun belt state- it's definitely a new fad. I won't say that it's too widespread (yet?), but for those who want to kink it up, it's a road they're taking. I hear of it quite often. It's the coupled desires of men being slightly bicurious and wanting to test it out in a safe environment, or men (totally straight, no attraction whatsoever to men) wanting to be vulnerable and passive, and feeling only a male can provide that experience, and a newfound fetish for women to love m/m action (it's huge- women are the number one consumers/creators of yaoi and shounen ai, and more profess to liking gay male porn). Add it all up, and you've got straight couples bringing in guys to bang the boyfriends/husbands. Very interesting from a sociological point of view ( . . . lol, that's me, always taking the heat out of sex).
Anyways, sounds like everyone's getting what they want. Enjoy!
2006-11-09 15:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... well, if you ask a straight guy what his fantasy is he'll tell you that its about watching two women get it on. I suppose it works the other way as well.
It's just that women typically are more 'mature' about their sexual relationships and aren't into the whole 'sex for entertainment' thing as much as men are.
As women are allowed by our Puritanic culture to be gradually more assertive and independant, I could see this sort of thing being a little more common.
2006-11-09 14:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Todd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it certainly is a new spin for some people! I have to tell you that gays and lesbians are sick of straight people flirting with us and trying to get sex. I find it annoying and disrespectful when men try to pick up lesbians - SORRY GUYS, YOU CAN'T HAVE US!!! Maybe to YOU what you're doing is "normal" but it's disrespectful and WRONG to flirt with women who don't want d!ck.
2006-11-09 13:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea if it's a new fad in the straight community but it sounds HOT!
So did you do it? How was it? I want to see the video. LOL
2006-11-09 12:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by ByTheSea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight people are disgusting....they think of nothing but sex constantly.
I don't mind them so much but I hate it when they push their disgusting straight agenda.
Can't they just keep their sex lives to themselves?
2006-11-09 12:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think exploring sexuality generally is the fad.... Just be careful.
2006-11-09 14:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Love_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is straight anymore. Do them. Do them all.
2006-11-09 14:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so people just approach you from out of nowhere........?
2006-11-09 12:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋