My girlfriend has confided that she wants a black male stripper for her birthday. She said that if I got her one, she would allow me one wish also, like my fantasy about her dressing up like a maid. She said that she has been faithful and would just like one fantasy and would not ask for more. She stresses that I would be the only one who benefits from her being turned on--she would attack me shortly after the strippers performance. She says that she would not do anything sexual with the stripper, but would touch his big package if I agree. If not, she would just look. Should she get it out of her system? She IS a faithful woman and is extremely open with me. She says that she is 25 this year and would like to do one crazy thing before we marry. I have had much more sexual experience than her and she thinks this would even the playing field, so that she has no regrets when she settles down. Rather than sneak around, she wants my blessing. Should I give her a dark fantasy night?
2006-11-09 04:32:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Movies
you are crazy, you must have stepped outside your mind
2006-11-09 04:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well, either she can have this "Fantasy" out in the open with your knowledge or she will do it at later date behind your back. If there's one thing I've learned about women. it's that they really don't care if you say yes or no, they are going to do it somehow some way when you're not around. Take your pick.
P.S. Pick a better fantasy than the maid outfit. Think more along the lines of getting a stripper for yourself and make sure she looks nothing like your girlfriend so she understands that you have secret desires also. Save the maid thingy for when you've been married for 10 years and are bored silly.
2006-11-09 05:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by k_silver67 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO for it. better to get it out now before the nuptials, if you suppress her desires she may grow to resent you.
not to sound animalistic but listen to this someone once told me a while ago.
Imagine a bird in a cage. Imagine now if from time to time the owner lets the bird out to fly around the house. but eventually the bird goes back into the cage.
Now imagine another bird with a different owner, this owner never letting the bird out the cage at all.
One day both cages fall the doors swing wide open... which bird do you think will fly out the window?? (the bird that never had the chance to fly around)
My point is that if you give her a lil chance to do somethin wild and fun then she won't be tempted to do it when she has the chance on her own. If you are worried that this might backfire and that she might get too happy seeing this man's genitals you forbidding her to do it now is only going to make it worse in the long run
so let her have some fun and then be done with it. best of luck
2006-11-09 04:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by myfianceisamonkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes since i had my hand up 1st all other blk males in the room many had 2 sit still and think,bring her 2 me 4 the touch the feel the performance I will grow her a 9...PeAcE
2006-11-09 05:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by michael looooou 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to these Bozo's. It sounds like you have a wonderfully open and honest relationship. Wanting to see a stripper is relatively innocent to other things she could have suggested, like swinging or a threesome or joining a fetish club. If it makes you uncomfortable, ask the she be in the presence of friends during the stripping act, or go to see male strippers in a club or something. And she's right...you would be the one to benefit. You sound like an open-minded and generous man...she's lucky to have you.
2006-11-09 04:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am astonished that your considering this request. I would be floored if my spouse came up with this one.. You need to really do a heart check on yourself, and she needs to the same on herself. If she is needing this to fill complete in her sexuality or horniess then your relationship may not be as strong as you might believe. This is a possible sign that something is missing in the relationship that she needs this extra excitement. Suggestion, you dress up like a hunk of a stripper and do the streptease for her and tell her she can even touch... For me that would greatly turn me on for my husband to offer that kind of action. I went as far as to buy the Carmen Electra streaptease CD's so that I could learn some moves to keep the interest going in my marriage.. But I would never think of bringing someone in on my marriage or relationship.. I wish the best for you, but something isn't right here....
2006-11-09 04:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by tmjf461 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just let her! Honestly, a stripper isn't that big of a deal, and you're not supposed to touch them anyhow. (Although, I imagine the guy strippers aren't as picky).
2006-11-09 04:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Billy K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't she may to tempted to act out on it herself.
You sound like you trust her, but I would be concerned that she has more than this "innocent fantasy" in her head.
Personally I think strippers are tacky and disgusting. Why not come home with a cucumber in yer pants and talk "ghetto" to her and act out the fantasy yerself?
2006-11-09 04:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 be honest i think u should let her as she has asked u for your blessing and she has agreed not 2 touch him if u dnt want her 2. Its better then her doing it behind ur back dnt u think?
p.s Good luck 4 the future!
2006-11-09 04:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not quite sure why you have asked this question under movies. Do you intend to film it?
2006-11-09 16:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jim T 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you two are ready for marriage. It sounds to me like you need more time away from each other.
2006-11-09 04:37:54 · answer #11 · answered by Ronaldo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋