MY BEST FRIEND HAS A GREAT HUSBAND AND SHE CHEATED ON HIM ONE TIME, NOW SHE THINKS SHE SHOULD LEAVE HIM BECAUSE SHE DOSEN'T DESERVE HIM. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO TELL HER. SHE HAS ALWAYS HAD PROBLEMS OF WANTING ATTENTION FROM GUYS. I AM NOT MAKING EXCUSES FOR HER BEHAVIOUR BUT, I THINK IT IS BECAUSE HER DAD WAS NEVER AROUND. WHAT SHOULD I TELL MY FRIEND?
2006-11-09 04:23:57 · 12 answers · asked by just me and my crew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should tell her to grow up. She made a commitment that she hasn't honored, and her husband does deserve better. She needs to straighten up her life and become a good wife and keep her pants on while away from her husband.
2006-11-09 04:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending how long the marrage was, I would tell him and take the punishment that will be due, probly going to be alot of yelling. If this is not a abusive relationship, have her stand there and take the yelling. If you just turn around and leave, will only make him mader. My wife has had an affair on me and I can look past it. A marrige is something you work on. I know that this will be hard, trust me I know. My wife didn't tell me and I went snooping around her stuff and found out that way. I would of rather her told me, then me having to find out that way. I know telling the truth is always hard, and not telling the truth is always easy. In the long run it's only going to bite her in the a**. Just tell him.
2006-11-09 04:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by beachdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with her husband until she makes sure that she didn't get an STD from the guy she cheated with.... IT's wrong, and yes she should leave him, and yes she doesn't deserve him.... No one male or female should ever have to go through that.... She's probally doing him a favor anyway with all the drama that she gives men... my father wasn't around and I don't cheat on my husband or beg for attention from every man on this planet...but hey that's just me....
2006-11-09 04:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she feels she should leave him then tell her to leave! shes right he deserves better specially if he is a great guy! if she obviously loved him she would have never cheated on him no matter what! just because your father isn't around doesn't mean that's your excuse to cheat! tell her to let him know she cheated on him and then go from there....
2006-11-09 04:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is can she keep her pants on .
and that would be the only time she cheated and the last
she knows her husband is a good guy why dont she cherish that
and its a good thing she regret what she did ,she dont deserve him thats right.
tel her to shut up and make it up for him and make him happy
2006-11-09 04:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by redscorpionhot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you 2 have been mutually for an extremely long term, that's annoying to easily up and depart. i comprehend you're uninterested in getting cheated on in spite of the undeniable fact that it is going to come an afternoon once you're beneficial sufficient on your determination which you would be able to declare "hello, i do no longer deserve this crap and in case you had to cheat, you mustn't have married me." it is going to be puzzling on account which you like him and in some unspecified time interior the destiny have been IN love with him. yet you will desire to be taken care of like the queen which you're and he would desire to have shown you that. And plus you have given your self to him emotionally and he only did you incorrect. You flow and get your existence returned once you're waiting to. it somewhat is annoying yet you nonetheless shouldn't submit with it in any respect.
2016-10-21 13:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat because of something missing in their current relationship. If he's not giving her all that she needs, then that should be the reason to leave.
2006-11-09 04:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea, Have her and her husband talk about this. That's what marraige is supposed to be about. Maybe he's angry enough to leave her and she won't have to make that decision.
I'm not going to sit here and try to make a decision that is theirs to make, but they have to make it. If she leaves without talking about it, she is proned to repeat her mistake rather than learn from it.
2006-11-09 04:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by dpkissuperman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to keep her mouth shut and never ever tell him. Then make up for it by making him the happiest man alive, being a good wife and giving him great sex.
2006-11-09 04:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her it's her choice what to do-it's her life-not yours. I would leave him since he deserves better then her.
2006-11-09 04:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋