do you think that 47yr old is to old for a 25yr old girl.?

Question

she wants to be my wife. but i,m not feel it.

Answer 1

age is nuttin' but a number. Love is what counts.

Im guessing you've got some wealth behind you.

Answer 2

I think many are being too quick to condemn on here without all the facts.

People are people and it all depends on your outlook on life to wether your suited, she could be a very old 25 and you a very young 47.

I don't think age comes into it, i think it's about personalities, if you get on then go for it but i wouldn't be jumping into a marraige for a long time just to see of the age gap causes problems.

As someone else said above, she's 25, not 18 or 21 years old, 25 is not a young girl and she's old enough to make her own decisions.

Go for it, let other people worry about what they want but just take your time.

Answer 3

i dont really know.but because shes over 18. She can make make her own mind up and she doesnt require parents consent. If she likes the 47yr old man,,than y not. Nothing should hold her back, even age. Ive seen older relationships.

Answer 4

I am in a relationship with a man 26 years my senior. Age doesn't mean a thing and should not be an obstacle. Your main obstacle at the moment is that she is looking for a commitment and you are not ready in this relationship yet. Give it time and see how you feel further down the road. Good luck!

Answer 5

It depends how young you feel, and what common interests you have. Money is an issue. If you are rich, she might be after your money, if not, that is one problem less. But the real problem, is that, years passing by, you will get older at a faster pace than she will!
Also other people might not accept your relationship. Young men from her age will try to take her away from you.
So, unless you are absolutely not jealous, your life will turn into hell. You will start controlling her, spying after her, and keep here more and more like a prisonner in your house.
After a while, you (more than her) will notice, that all your love will not be enough to keep your couple alive..

Answer 6

If you are not feeling it then I would say no. Go with your gut. There's a reason you don't feel comfortable with this. My guess, you were having sex before this girl was even alive... I'm not saying that I am against older man/younger woman relationships (or vice versa) but I just don't understand the intrigue. You would have nothing in common.

Answer 7

Don't take any notice of the sad weirdos answering earlier; there's nothing wrong with a mature woman (and she should be at 25) wanting a more mature man.
Mind, if you feel it's not right, you shouldn't do it - only marry for love!

Good luck.

Answer 8

A marriage between two people with an age gap of 22 years could work, but not if one of you doesn't want or is not sure about marrying the other. If you have to ask people that you don't know, their opinion, I think that you should know the answer all ready. .............DON'T DO IT !

Answer 9

Yes, you both are at different places in her life.

It seems like she is staring at you with stars in her eyes thinking that you're the best thing to walk in the world. All she wants is marriage.

You need to tell her that you just don't want to be married at this point in your life. I would suggest telling her what you do want from her. Is she just going to be your screw buddy?

If you lead her on, that's just wrong.

Answer 10

Yes

Answer 11

Clearly. Ask yourself why you even asked the question - because you know the answer, but want someone to make you feel better about doing something you know is wrong.