Can a married man work 50 hours a week (my hubby I'm talking about) with a Brittany Spears look alike, and not cheat?
2006-11-09 04:04:55 · 33 answers · asked by sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am attractive, but in no way a Brittany look alike. lol
2006-11-09 04:05:38 · update #1
Of course he can. I work at a university and there are tons of young beautiful girls all over the place. They can be as friendly and flirty as they want but ultimately it won't do them any good because I love my wife and I would never cheat on her.
2006-11-09 04:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Ummm, ya. Brittany is a skank. It is not on the outside that counts. A true women is a full package, Looks (Personal Choice), Body ( Personal Choice) and personality.
You put all of that together and the guy is hooked.
Looks fade and people change, true love means that you love the person for who/what they are as a whole. Brittany will look like a dented can in 5 yrs.
Everyguy has his little thing, legs, eyes, hands but once you fall in love with someone. All of the little things (Flaws that we all have) don't matter.
Any girl can try to seduce on looks alone, doesn't mean that she can hold a candle to the women whom owns the guys heart.
2006-11-09 04:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by SRC 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course he can,of course that also depends on how he's being treated at home doesn't it? After all my ex-wife decided less than a year into our marriage that she suddenly wanted the sex life of a nun,so I guess if it had been me then no,I cheated on my wife quite often once her feelings were firmly established,I still loved her and in fact still do,and would have been faithful only to her gladly,but it's a two way street. Sort of like the joke in City slickers If I can't be happy here(indicates home) I'll be happy here(indicates crotch) so the only reason to worry is if you already have problems or if hubby is a dirtbag,because of course we have to consider that factor.
2006-11-09 04:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, and even if things aren't going right between the 2 of you. I work with several attractive women, one of whom used to be a professional model (and still could get away with being one) but haven't had an affair with any of them despite finding them very attractive...it takes more. They not only need to find each other attractive physically but in other ways, and it just doesn't happen often. Especially if the Britney-Clone knows he's married!
2006-11-09 04:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that he's innocently working those long hours, but having some eye candy while he's working is sure helping time go bye. You shouldn't be worried unless you're ignoring him once he does get home, just remember that he's coming home "to you", try and not let your self go by walking around as if you just rolled out of bed. I'm not saying to be dressed to the tee, but let him remember what a hot looking wife he has at home. Good luck!
2006-11-09 05:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seasoned Woman here:
Yes, a man can work with a look a-like and not cheat. It requires your man to have strength of character, and dedication to his wife and the vows he took. However, he may masturbate to the idea of her a few times. Then the thrill will pass, and he will find a new fantasy girlfriend.
I have a fantasy boyfriend, my husband knows about it and doesn't have a problem with it. Likewise, he has a fantasy girlfriend. Would either of us act on it, NO. But, its fun to think about.
2006-11-09 04:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter what she looks like have more faith in your husband. If he was going to cheat he will do it with who ever he wanted to or could. Dont be intimidated by her he married you for a reason, looks arent everything. Just be confident in yourself and do things for him to make you feel more secure in your marriage. If you feel that you are doing what you can to make him happy then there would be no room for any insecure thoughts. Just know that he loves you and if he had those intentions it wouldnt matter what someone looked like he would do it anyway. So dont worry about the things that you cannot control.
2006-11-09 04:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is faithful and committed to you, not a problem. Besides, look at Brittany now. lol.. He married you for you, not Brittany.
2006-11-09 04:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by dadknows 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can it happen? Sure.
Will it happen? Not if he is satisfied at home, if he isn't getting what he wants and needs from you he may go get it elsewhere. Men are just that way, but if you take care of him, you will have nothing to worry about in any circumstance.
2006-11-09 04:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes most definitely - I know several men that Brittany types are a real turn-off not turn-on.
2006-11-09 04:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋