I'm 16 he is 46. We got a little drunk together and ended up having sex on two occasions, once I slept over at his house, he has daughters older than me.
He told me he has his kids this week and he cant see me, but he hasnt even text me back and I havent heard from him in 2 days, so I'm hoping he'll just be busy - right?
He said he is always here for me and he is a genuinly nice guy, everybody knows it, so please dont tell me not to see him again, but do you think he will call?
I dont think he will just ditch me he isnt like that he;s got such a great smile and when he holds me i feel great.
My mother has a new guy now and she has never been there for me so i dont feel bad on her, she walked out on me when i was 4.
But he's great andi miss him. help.
2006-11-09 03:57:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, take my word that he will contact you as soon as he could manage. He is not contacting you because he has his kids at home and no matter what his kids would never allow or accept this relationship AND he do not want to push himself into arguments. He is 46 and he must be mature enough to manage the show. Just wait and leave the matter into his hand........
Why to leave him? Just because he is older than you ?? It's a wrong theory.
2006-11-09 04:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think this man is a great guy. What's wrong with you. This man is 46 yrs old your only 16. Then to top things off he was your mother boyfriend. What is this payback on your part because your mother walked out on you at age 4. Your no better. You like this guy because he was different in bed. He hold you, he's nice etc.. You think he won't ditch you because he not that type of guy wake up he's wrose for a man to sleep with his ex girlfriend child something wrong with him. What you did'nt feel loved enough? You don't love yourself. Please help yourself. Read self help books read 10 stupid things women do to mess up there lives by Dr. Laura Pray ask God tell him your promblems he will listen find a good chuch. find good friends.
2006-11-09 12:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in this case you dont have a problem, you know what you want and knowing is half the battle... sounds familiar right?! Truly the problem lies with the person you are infatuated with knowingly in your state, because he has more experience than you have and that is what you call being cheated out of your innocence... it seems you are a very loving lady, longing for a wonderful life a head of you and there is nothing wrong with that... What bothers me is how come someone like him who has daughters of her own would even think of doing so.... he is the one who has a problem not you... so my advice to you young lady is to enjoy life to its fullest and dont let anybody destroy your spirit... for we all live in that moment of joy and that would be the end of it.... godspeed!!!
2006-11-09 12:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by CAPOCEANS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have to have a standard for what we are looking for in a mate. If he is 46 or 16, you should feel like you are the only one. Don't get me wrong I hope he does not go to jail for messing with you, however if you have feelings like you say, then he will solidify your feelings by showing you respect by calling you back. Does not matter how you feel in his arms or his smile, if he cares about you as much as you care about him, then he will call you.
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-09 12:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by jman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO---- that is so not okay. He is old enough to be your dad and you are just 16 years old! He has taken advantage of the fact that you were insecure and had a close relationship with him.
Your looking for a father figure-- not a healthy relationship at all-- besides that , he's breaking the law--
2006-11-09 12:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by cbp61 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is your father in all this? It sounds like you've a serious Electra complex and need therapy yesterday. I can understand dating older guys, but 30 years difference at 16 is excessive and illegal. I hope for your sake he doesn't call. You need help, and so does he.
2006-11-09 12:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one what he is doing to u is rape there is no if ands or butts about it a man has no buisness being with a child of your age u better pray your mom doesnt find out or shell prolly be in jail for murder no call means he doesnt want any *** that day get a grip and y would u sleep with someone your mom did gross
2006-11-09 14:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by kissfan1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope the pedophile gets caught before he catches you again. He is preying on you and your young emotions. He is a very, very bad man and needs to be locked up. sorry honey, only the truth here.
2006-11-09 12:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by daj11551 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just remember u are 16 hes way to old for u hes not going to commit to u hes probably banging u to get back at momma get away now
2006-11-09 12:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by raymond r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..
I dont know wht to say , but please dont get too emotional if he doesnt call.
the cards are not in your favor this hand, to say..
Try going out and finding a new love interest, you will be better off in the long run, right now your heading for a heartbreak..
2006-11-09 12:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋