my friend roberta has a 14 year old son who is ADHD so far this child of hers managed to order porn lying about his age and getting the information from his mother data she keeps on her computer to pay for the material. he refuses to do his chores wants to be conditional doing such as well as attending his meetings for scouts and when the said activity interests him. he kept his mid term grades from his mother as he is ready to fail a class for not doing the assigned work. and when the school nurse called her for permission to send him home for head lice she granted the permission to do such, 10 minutes later the police call her at work informing her that her son was busted for smoking and they gave the child a ticket for it when she asked why he did this all he replies is i don't know she has tried professional help he refuses to get out of the car resulting in the theripst trying to talk to him from the window of the car what can i suggest to my friend to try and help her with this.
2006-11-09 03:52:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I feel for her. You are a good friend by trying to help. First, of all...there is nothing that God cannot mend. Pray. Pray for your friend and her son. Tell her to pray also. Pray for her son's teachers and doctors too. It's is hard for a young person to have a lot of authority figures that don't show him love. Teachers and doctors generalize treatment of children way too much these days, which can hurt her son's healing process. So please pray for everyone who touches this boys life. I will pray for you all also. King James version of the Bible book of Matthew chapter 18 verses 18-19 says, "Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven." Pray "in the name of Jesus" that name has power!
God made everything seen and unseen. There is nothing to hard for him.
Here's another tip. Males communicate better while physically engaged when they are not in defense mode. She could try playing catch, or any game, for what seems like no reason at all to the child. While they play she can begin by talking about what he likes first and slowly work in some questions about his day. The first time they play together she may not want to try and tackle anything that will put him on the defense. Any activity will help her cause though. I do things like this with my husband all the time. At this point, when I just have a little something to say or ask, I will touch his back, elbow, shoulder, hand or knee while I speak and make eye contact. Listen: I little goes a long way when love is expressed above all.
2006-11-09 04:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kari L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel you will have to go away it to time, if she is not in a position for the connection might be she actually isn't in a position for a dating so, provide her a few house. Trying to fail to remember the emotions you might have is a waste of effort and time coz check out as you would however the ones feeling is not going at any place attempt to receive you might have the ones feeling and transfer on in lifestyles. In ur query you have not stated whatever approximately her no longer in need of to be ur pal as a substitute u have stated that she valued ur friendship, so i feel u have a 2 method friendship. Try to not be so egocentric in case you wish some thing it is not consistently real thart anybody else might additionally wish the equal factor. I feel no longer speaking to her is a tragic finishing to ur friendship and no longer a right resolution I feel she is involved that in case you men dated and matters did not exercise then she might lose a well pal so ask her if it's so. and if she dated anybody else there is not any experience in looking ahead to her or being irritated at her u will have to additionally pass out and discover anybody who loves u and u love again. if being simply peers is troubling you i might recommendation you to stay peers and pass out and discover anybody who loves u and u love again.
2016-09-01 09:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-09 04:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-09 04:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋