my boyfriend does everything SLOWLY. he will take 3 days to do errands a normal person can do in one. he is highly intelligent but he just takes his good old time doing everything. i'm not the best either because i am late for everything. but he just takes it to an extreme. its soo fustrating. how can i speed him up without pissing him off?
2006-11-09 03:36:34 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i suggest get him a day planer and help him plan his days and keep everything in order.
2006-11-09 03:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girlfriend. .mine too! I can relate. Mine is slow, he's forgetful, unorganized and late too -- and I try to get him on track make him think more about things so he knows he has to be accountable for things as well. . but hey, I'm just the opposite so I usually end up taking up the slack. . I wish it weren't that way, cause he drives me crazy, but it is what it is. But I'm determined that I'm going to get him on track . .it's going to be a long process I can see that already, but it beats ME doing everything and thinking for both of us. . he's got to get on-board!
2006-11-09 13:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant. He's himself, you're yourself. You CANNOT change him!! get it?
that is the main reason why so many marriages end in divorce.
2006-11-09 11:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop complaining and accept him for who he is, when you get older and you start to sag everywhere, he sounds like he will not give a crap!
2006-11-09 11:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself this: Are you his mother? LOL
2006-11-09 11:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mensa Head 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
buy a watch that is ten min. fast.
2006-11-09 11:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by ken t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋