I am 24 years old and I met a woman who is 35 years old at work. She seemed very forward sexually and complimentary. I found out that she was a divorced mother of 3 with bipolar disorder and she was in a sexual relationship with a 42 year old man who was living with his girlfriend and we agreed to be friends with benefits. In the beginning I must admit we did just use each other for sex but towards the end of the year I got to meet her kids and know about her illness I got really close to her and really cared for her. All the while she complained about the other man using her for sex and being nasty but still kept on seeing him. Recently I have changed jobs and it seems she is in a manic phase, she has slept with other random men and told me but not the other guy about them. I did a really bad thing and told the guy what she is doing, since then no contact. I feel so guilty for doing this I know it was wrong but I think I really loved her and now she has gone. Am i a bad person?
2006-11-09 03:19:35 · 10 answers · asked by jon y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think this lady is prepared for a normal relationship at this time and you would be well served to duck out of future meeting with her , it's trouble in the offing , back off and be safe. It's not wrong to want sex but in a way it's taking advantage of someone a bit not theirself so to speak . Just back off and don't be involved anymore and you'll be fine.
2006-11-09 03:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a bad person. Just confused with all this. My mom is Bipolar so I know how strange the emotions someone with this disorder can be. It always to sound like a tv drama. Good luck.
2006-11-09 03:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-09 03:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by LIz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 11:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by riesgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it had to end sometime. If she is sleeping with that many men why would you want her? You're not a bad person, just a little jealous and wanted to get back at her.
2006-11-09 03:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong . Hopefully you are over her and have moved on in your life. She has too many problems for you to handle . You are young and need to find someone your own age. Forget her and try to be happy now .
2006-11-09 03:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't thing so you,re not a bad person, you just keep going ( Good luck man!)
2006-11-09 03:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Outsider4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't break confidentiality unless it is to protect someone and then still it's debatable. You must make amends...tell me more about your experience with her.
2006-11-09 03:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a bad person you just made a bad judgement ... the fact that u realise you made a mistake itself doesnt make you a bad person ... chill .. we learn from our mistakes ...
2006-11-09 03:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should not have done that, it was her place to tell not yours
2006-11-09 03:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by cbp61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋