should I pretend so we all can hang out, or exclude myself and hang out with my friends instead? These boys try to cause fights between my bf and I and its getting old. The think I am controlling, but they are all jealous cuz they can't be in a relationship.
2006-11-09 03:09:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just be with your friends; his sound really immature.
2006-11-09 03:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Texas T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. No need to be phony, just go hang out with your girls and let him have a "boys night out" or something. There's no reason why you all have to hang together all the time. It's good to have some alone time with your other friends.
2006-11-09 03:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time the guy says something impolite- tell him that he's out of line and his remark is uncalled for and can he suggestions exhibiting you slightly appreciate. in case you could, tell him privately which you will possibly % to be able to get alongside on your bf's sake so ask what's his difficulty with you? while he says something impolite returned - repeat it via saying "Did I hear that ideal? Did you only say ________ ?" attempt to dodge putting your boyfriend into the midsection of this or to opt for on account that in no way works. After your boyfriend has had a wager to work out/hear what his buddy has suggested to you on account which you made remark on it, next time he needs you all to charm to close out only clarify which you tried to occasion together with his buddy yet he has to comprehend which you adult males do no longer mingle properly.
2016-10-21 13:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your friends. If these guys are causing problems between you and your friends then in a way you can consider it a test of your friendsip. Try to talk out all of your problems with you friends calmly.
2006-11-09 03:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if all they want to do is make fights between you and your bf then they are not friends and you don't need them ......if your bf wants to hang out with them fine but you don't have to ... when he is with them you can go with your friends or do something different
2006-11-09 03:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are taking thier friend away from them...they are immature and are fighting back. I have no idea why you want to be around your man's friends anyway. Are you there being miserable because you dont trust him? Let him have his time just like you have yours. If you start bringing him around your girls nights out kinda deals, your friends will get pissed.
2006-11-09 11:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well hopefully they'll grow up. In the meantime, just do your best to tolerate it. Don't exclude yourself from 'all' activities involving his friends, but it's certainly not a bad idea to cut back on it.
2006-11-09 03:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best thing that you can do is just be the sweetest girl in the world, kill them with kindness....I promise that will work like a charm and eventually they will start keeping their mouths shut!
2006-11-09 03:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by TNL 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES EXCLUDE YOURSELF...IF YOU'VE ALREADY TRIED TO
HANG OUT WITH THEM AND IT DOESN'T WORK OUT. THEN YES JUST DO YOUR OWN THING...I DON'T LIKE MY BOYFRIENDS FRIENDS EITHER...SO I DO MY OWN THING!!
WE HAVE DIFFERENT FREINDS...WHICH IS NOT ALWAYS A BAD THING!!!
2006-11-09 03:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Precious M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just hang with your friends
2006-11-09 03:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by stress77mulah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋