Well, i cant go to guys houses, after my sister was *cought with her Bf in her room* ( at my house ) no guys are aloud to come over here, and whats the point of having a BF. Im not lovy dovy like my sis's were. There moved out now ( College) and i feel my mom is being to strict? What can i say to get my BF to come over? I mean i wont even kiss him, i just wanna hang out?
2006-11-09 02:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell your mom that you want her to trust you that you can behave when your boyfriend comes over. Promise her you will not violate her trust. Tell her that if you really wanted to do something bad with your boyfriend, you wouldn't do it in the house and wouldn't she want you to be somewhere where she can keep an eye on you? Tell her she has to let you learn to make your own decisions about self-respect and that by sheltering her, she is not giving you the tools to make healthy decisions.
2006-11-09 03:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look kiddo you did not say how old you are and that makes a diff. I wasnt allowed to have any sort of date untill I was 16 much less have a boy in my room. Maybe you parents are strict but they are just looking out for you. That is how you will always know they care even when it makes you want to string them up.
2006-11-09 03:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mum is judging you based on what your sister did! To show her that you are not the same sit down and talk to her like a grown up! Explain to her the way you have explained on here! I'm sure she will respect your maturity.
As the mother of a teenage daughter it is hard to do what is best but your mum loves you thats why she is trying to protect you. Talk to her!
2006-11-09 03:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not being fair, but, I am afraid that's the nature of the beast. I was the youngest in my family, and I got the same treatment, based upon how my older siblings acted when they were my age. Feel for you kid! I know its unfair, but she holds the power, and there isn't much you can do.
2006-11-09 02:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on how old you are. Then you should talk to your mom and ask her what you need to do so that she will be able to trust you to be in that situation.
2006-11-09 03:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by cbp61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋