Not anyone on here I mean my friends. I have half a mind to delete all their names off my phone. The only thing stopping me is I don't think you shouldn't cut off all your links to the world. But none have been there for me over this past year when I've been lonely and upset. I text them but none of them text back.
1 of them keeps asking me about my film studies tutor, she is getting obsessive and I've had enough, she never asks me about myself.
2 Won't answer my texts in the week when i need her but she phones every five minutues in the week.
Should I just delete their phone numbers?
Also, even though I'm lonely I don't want to make friends is that weird? It's just i can't trust people. Should I try anyway? Or work on myself, self confidence and so on then try to make friends?
2006-11-09 02:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't remeber putting a question mark at the front of that statement.
2006-11-09 02:55:22 · update #1
Three options ;
1. Delete their numbers and forget them. They might come looking for you if they don't hear from you.
2. Don't delete but just stop contacting them - if nobody contacts you after a month you know they don't care and you can delete them.
3. Be blunt. Email or text something like "Have I upset you because I don't hear from you anymore?"
It's bad to burn your bridges but you can put a roadblock up and see how THEY react.
2006-11-09 03:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by teddykinetic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It isn't weird that you don't want to make friends because if they betrayed you (like telling a secret) then they are not your true friends. About that one friend that keeps asking about the tutor tell them that is you business and not thiers. At least they call you. I mean they could be thinking that if you have to text then you have time to talk on the phone. I think you should try to make friends because sometimes they help you with you problems. But then again how can you trust anybody if you don't trust yourself?
2006-11-09 03:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't delete your friend's numbers. Just stop contacting them. Once you stop contacting them, they'll be the ones asking you why. Continue to make new friends who will enjoy your company and they will respond to your phone calls and text messages. True friends are hard to find these days and nobody can be trusted. It's unfortunate that you have to burn those bridges but it is a part of life unfortunately. If you really want to find out why your "friends" aren't contacting you, talk to them and hear what they have to say. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-11-09 03:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean, and understand how you are feeling. For me it seems like most of my friends are settling down and seem to ditch their friends until it all goes bad and then they come running back. The reason you don't want to make friends is because you think they are going to treat you the same way. I wouldn't delete their numbers but perhaps, the one who fancies your tutor tell her if she dosen't want to chat with you and just about him then not to bother. I think you should try and make yourself some new friends join some clubs or something maybe try and make friends slightly older than your friends you have now, as they maybe more likely to be more trustworthy as a friend. I try to be their for my friends as much as possible but you cant be all the time. Go and try to make friends, and enjoy yourself.
2006-11-09 04:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your "friends" seem to take you for granted. Don`t be so rash as to delete their numbers, just leave them alone for a while and let them come to you. That way you will know that if they don`t come to you then you are being taken for a ride. And there is nothing wrong with your own company, at least you will have someone who agrees with you all the time lol.
2006-11-09 03:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look they must of had some interest in you otherwise they would not want to phone you, stop being so hard on yourself, why shouldent people like you. Work on your confidance and learn to like yourself more.
write a list of things on a card you are good at and what you like about yourself and read it out everyday. 3 times, buy joyce meyers book the confidant woman its great www.joycemeyers.org I think you are a bit down and need your confidance boosting.
2006-11-09 04:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't delete their numbers. You just have to accept that they are not the people you can depend on to be there for you. That seems to be true of most people, but if you are lucky, you will find one or two "real" friends who you know that you can count on. That's really all you need. Good luck.
2006-11-09 03:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by justcurious 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Loyalty is a difficult quality to secure among friends and family. Being lonely is tough, but I find that good friends (even on-line ones) do make it less arduous for me.
2006-11-09 03:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are perfectly alright. I think that u have just not come across the correct person. Don't worry, time will surely give u happiness.
2006-11-09 03:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by divinesoul 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Best advice I can recommend , is find yourself some new friends
2006-11-09 03:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋