My room door has a see through glass panel in the middle. I use a piece of paper to cover it. However, there were a few holes in it which I did not notice. My "friends" people I go out, chat, play games, etc, with, leave across from me. They according to them after I found out by myself from overhearing their conversations, were using the hole to regularly peep at me for a long period of time. Now I feel like my personal dignity has all been lost. What should I do ? To stop talking with them would be impossible as I work with them and they are like the only people around where I stay and work... and How can i find out if they saw anything compromising about me ? =x
2006-11-09 02:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by igottanoe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Can they be considered trustworthy people ?
2006-11-09 02:47:25 · update #1
is that what "normal" everyday friends would do ?
2006-11-09 02:48:43 · update #2
yea from what they told me about my roomate when i confronted them (though they wouldnt say they were peeping at me), they basically could see everything....
2006-11-09 02:53:36 · update #3
if they're really your friends then they wont think any differently of you. and if they saw anything it doesn't matter now nothing can change it. just go on like nothing happened but make it clear you do not like the fact that they were looking at you when you thought you were hidden. if they tease you or are holding over your head what they saw then screw them they aren't your friends and don't talk to them.
2006-11-09 02:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how hurt you must feel as your privacy has been taken away but could they really have seen that much through the holes without you knowing they were there? If you have to stay friends then i would make a joke of it! Tell them that from now on if they want the same quality viewing it will come at a cost! Otherwise i would cut them off they obviously have nothing better to do with their time!
2006-11-09 02:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why does everyone seem so shocked over his latest racist remarks when they are simply a continuation of a pattern which has previously been ignored by most? Obama has said: "I ceased to advertise my mother’s race at the age of twelve or thirteen, when I began to suspect that by doing so I was ingratiating myself to whites." and, "I found solace in nursing a pervasive sense of grievance and animosity against my mother’s race." and. "To avoid being mistaken for a sellout, I chose my friends carefully. The more politically active black students. The foreign students. The Chicanos. The Marxist professors and structural feminists." And, "The point I was making was not that Grandmother harbors any racial animosity. She doesn't. But she is a typical white person..." and, "That’s just how white folks will do you." and, "I can no more disown (Jeremiah Wright) than I can disown the black community." And, let's not forget Michelle's influence with one of her quotes,.................... "Earlier in my college career, there was no doubt in my mind that as a member of the Black community I was somehow obligated to this community and would utilize all of my present and future resources to benefit this community first and foremost."
2016-05-22 00:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Emely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think about that is.everybody should have some type of boundry.your boundries were violated. you should address them about this matter ,let them know how you feel about the situation.friends dont do things to friends that will have impact on there dignity so you need to revaluate take a look at who you choose to call friends believe me there are so many good people in this world that would probably love to be a friend to you .dont just settle you are intitled to have good honest friends and again evaluate who you choose to call your friends.good luck on finding new honest friends
2006-11-09 02:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get your friends alone and calmly tell them that what they did was not cool with you. sometimes people just need to be reminded that their actions are out of place, and telling your friends upfront and being honest with them about how you feel will help you get your dignity back!
and if you find out later that they're still peeking at you after you told them to stop, then drop them and try to see them as little as possible...obviously they don't respect your feelings, so they're not worth your time!
2006-11-09 02:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't sound like friends to me. You didn't do anything wrong so don't act like it. Ask these so-called friends directly what you want to know. And, you might like to put something a little more substantial over your glass. Like self-sticking contact paper.
2006-11-09 02:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stuff like this happens because people have a natral curiosity to find out things that they don't know much about.
the best way to find out what they know is to be upfront with them. you might lose them as friends or your relationship might become very awkward, but its not right for thhem to spy on you AND talk about it.
2006-11-09 02:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by billywxyz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell the boss about it he will probably let u go to a nother section or something and then dont tlk to them and put a dark color paint over the window thats not right
2006-11-09 02:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by rjeezy14 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sucks!! i hate these kind of people....if i were you i would avoid any contact with them, and i'll let then know that i'm very upset about this, and that i don't want to be around them any more.
2006-11-09 02:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i would find other work... have an investigation done and tell them all to eat my shorts and have the perverts charged!
2006-11-09 03:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by mistress_tiana_soprano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋